"Women don't love men who aren't bad," but why do women love cool, bad-boy men? Even the nice guy can't compete with the bad boy; what's the unique charm of the bad boy?
1. High levels of male hormones
A study by the Kinsey Institute in the United States found that men with strong personalities, a love of adventure and challenges, and a competitive spirit are more likely to attract women. This is because this "masculinity" indicates higher levels of testosterone in their bodies. This male hormone deeply attracts women from a physiological instinct, complementing the femininity of women.
2. To satisfy vanity
A competitive man, in order to win the heart of the woman he loves or gain her approval, often becomes more determined after setbacks, even resorting to confrontation and war. This heroic behavior easily arouses a woman's deep-seated sense of satisfaction, and even vanity.
3. Rebellion brings pleasure
In civilized society, sex is often subject to certain constraints and restrictions. However, the free-spirited "bad boy" dares to break free from these taboos, and this unrestrained interaction is often incredibly exciting. Like taming a wild beast, although dangerous, the sense of accomplishment upon success is doubled.
4. Seeking novelty and excitement
If life becomes mundane and boring, and you crave dramatic adventures, then perhaps only a bad man can satisfy that desire. They are more willing to try new things and do things they've never experienced before, such as taking her camping in the wilderness.
5. Possesses both romance and sexual interest.
I always felt that a man's "badness" was like calling a child a "little rascal"—it's just him causing trouble, teasing you, and engaging in harmless mischief. It's fundamentally different from being utterly wicked or disgustingly boring. Some of their actions are just slightly outrageous or not quite in line with traditional norms, like how a "good woman" who is "presentable in public and capable in the kitchen" is sometimes paired with a "good wife in the bedroom" by a bad man. But their "badness" makes life more interesting, more sexually exciting, and more fun!
