When men pursue women, their most common tactics are persistence and relentless flirting, some of which are so irresistible that women find them hard to resist. How should women deal with men like this?
First tip: Learn to say "no"
From the very first meeting, you should let this man know that you are not a promiscuous woman; you have your principles and your own rules. Rejecting him isn't a big deal, after all, you haven't officially started a relationship yet; perhaps a well-timed rejection will actually fuel his desire to conquer you.
The second tactic: Show your reluctance.
The ultimate goal of a man who flirts is nothing more than to take advantage of a woman's body. Women can easily see through this, but they don't know how to refuse, fearing an awkward situation. Men's methods are ever-changing, and women can only respond to them with unchanging strategies.
If he tries to touch you, forcefully move his hand away to show your reluctance, then give him a way out, such as, "Look, your hands are dirty, go wash them in the bathroom!" If he wants to kiss you, offer him a glass of water or something similar before he does, preserving your dignity and dissuading him from the idea altogether.
Third trick: Actually, I'm not short of money.
In order to maintain this kind of relationship, most men who are flirting with you are willing to spend money on you. If you happen to also like being "paid for," then you're playing right into their hands, and it might be difficult to get out unscathed later. Therefore, when you go out together, don't always let him pay, and don't accept his expensive gifts.
Fourth tactic: Don't give him a chance.
I often see beautiful girls around me, but they keep men at a distance. The answer is simple: they never flaunt their charm or act coquettishly in front of men. As the saying goes, flies don't land on eggs without cracks. If you're well-behaved and discreet, men won't easily add you to their list of potential romantic interests.
Actually, if you truly have no feelings for him, there are ways to make him stay away. The most terrifying thing is when you say "no" but secretly harbor feelings for him—how can that man ever give up?
