A high-quality sex life can enhance a couple's relationship. However, in reality, various problems make it difficult to achieve a truly harmonious sex life. Next, we'll discuss six of the most perplexing issues in a couple's sex life and teach you how to address them.
1. I'm usually too busy and only have sex a few times a year. Is that normal?
Sexual intimacy is a harmonizing agent in marriage. If a couple has sex less than 10 times a year, the marriage is considered "sexless." Currently, a significant number of couples live this way, accounting for nearly one-fifth of all couples globally. To improve this situation, couples need to increase the frequency of their sexual activity and identify and address the underlying causes affecting their sex life.
2. Every time we have sex, the man is on top and the woman is on the bottom. It's very boring. How can we improve this?
There are many sexual positions available for couples, and changing positions from time to time can enhance the sexual experience for both partners. Couples may want to consult sex education books together, learn new sexual positions, and apply them in their daily lives. Don't think that talking about sex is shameful; it's a normal conversation between couples.
3. What to do if your partner doesn't accept sex toys during sex?
Sex toys can enhance a couple's sex life, but improper use can cause aversion and backfire. It's recommended to discuss purchasing sex toys with your partner beforehand. Choose the simplest ones for use while traveling to increase enjoyment. Only purchase more if there's no aversion. Pay attention to hygiene when using sex toys.
4. Why is it that I have difficulty reaching orgasm during sex, but I can during masturbation?
This situation often occurs in women, who are more familiar with their own bodies and can often stimulate their most sensitive areas during masturbation to achieve orgasm. However, in marital sex, men are usually dominant and often neglect stimulation of women's most sensitive areas, making it difficult for women to experience orgasm during intercourse.
5. Can you control your private parts freely during sexual intercourse?
Whether a woman's vagina is tight or not is a factor affecting the sexual experience of a couple. Due to the combined effects of childbirth and age, a woman's vagina may become looser, potentially reducing her own sexual pleasure and leaving her partner less satisfied. However, solving this problem is not difficult. By exercising the vaginal muscles for 20 minutes daily, repeatedly contracting the vaginal muscles, results can be seen after a month.
6. What should I do if my spouse has sexual dysfunction, making our sex life unsatisfying?
Premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction in men can indeed lead to unsatisfactory sexual experiences and low sexual satisfaction for couples. To address this issue, women should first avoid ridicule or mockery, and instead offer encouragement and understanding, facing the problem together with their partner. They can suggest that their partner engage in Kegel exercises and seek medical treatment.
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