Blind dates are often seen as something only older generations do. However, many modern women are so busy with their careers that they neglect dating, leading their elders to arrange blind dates. Blind dates are indeed a way to find a partner, so most people hope to succeed. To do so, making a good first impression is crucial. So, how can you make a good impression on a blind date?
1. Appropriate makeup
No matter how good your skin is, if you're single, force yourself to put on a face mask before your blind date. Especially since many blind dates these days are scheduled for daytime on holidays, in a quiet coffee shop near a window, sitting opposite each other. Let me tell you, sunlight will reveal every imperfection on your face. It will even show the texture of your foundation. Even the most beautiful woman fears the sun; a proper moisturizing routine before a blind date is the first hurdle to overcome for your confidence.
2. Prepare topics for discussion in advance.
Before a blind date, force yourself to prepare a few topics. During the date, you can bring up topics as needed to avoid awkward silences. Of course, there are techniques to preparing topics. Avoid a rigid question-and-answer format. However, if you encounter an introverted or quiet person, you can start with interesting current news topics to subtly gauge their interests and preferences. But on the first meeting, avoid mentioning money, and especially avoid topics that are overly suggestive about the other person, lest they perceive you as "vulgar."
If possible, it's best to communicate with the other person by phone a few times before meeting them in person to get a basic understanding of them. This will give you more common topics to discuss and increase the chances of a successful blind date.
3. Time management is important.
If the two parties don't fall in love at first sight or get along exceptionally well, then the blind date should ideally not exceed two hours. On a first blind date, don't aim for a long chat. If you feel good about the other person, you should also say "goodbye" appropriately. As for questions you wanted to ask but didn't, you can consult the matchmaker at home or leave them for a more detailed discussion at the next meeting. In short, the first blind date should be short and concise—just right!
If you encounter a difficult or unpleasant question on a blind date, don't force yourself to answer. Just smile and remain silent. This will leave the other person with a sense of composure and goodwill, which is a sign of a lady's rationality and wisdom.
