Yahoo! recently compiled a list of 8 fatal mistakes women are most prone to making:
throwing a tantrum for no reason
When talking to my husband, my voice inexplicably rises, and my tone is full of complaints and contempt. How can such negative communication make my husband happy? Women, you need to have a good ear to listen, listen to your husband's opinions often, listen to their feelings, and don't always throw tantrums. Only in this way can you protect your marriage.
nagging and talking nonstop
Your husband is resting, but you insist on ordering him around; he's entertaining guests, but you insist on monitoring him closely. You nag at home, and you nag again when he's out. Your husband is annoyed just thinking about it; why would he ever want to come back to your comforting embrace?
Unexplained sexual frigidity
When your husband is giving you flirtatious glances and gently caressing you on the other side of the bed, it means he wants you. At this moment, don't remain indifferent, staring blankly at the ceiling, waiting for his pleasure. You should respond; otherwise, his newly ignited passion will be ruthlessly extinguished by your cold indifference. In the end, he can only awkwardly utter, "Go to sleep." Isn't that a pity?
Sloppy and untidy
Clothes make the man, and a saddle makes the horse. As a woman, you must always dress appropriately and neatly. Never give up on yourself; it's a huge blow to a man. Furthermore, research shows that what men find most unbearable is a woman's sudden change of heart, whether physical or emotional. Women, you understand.
She only fulfills the duties of a mother and lacks tenderness.
If you're constantly preoccupied with your children and have no time for time alone with your husband, your marriage is in danger. Who wants to marry a nanny? Women, you should know when to be charming and affectionate with your men; men like that.
Interfering with Father's Love is the Greatest
Don't always assume your man can't take care of the kids. He has his way, and you have yours. What you need to do is seek common ground while respecting differences, and avoid simply denying his abilities. Don't interfere with the expression of fatherly love, otherwise you'll create a chasm between the child and the father, and your man, fed up with your behavior, will have no choice but to run away.
Cold and indifferent, no thanks
Don't always assume that everything a man does for you is his due. It's unfair that he works so hard outside while you sit at home and enjoy the fruits of his labor. Men don't need women to support them, but they do need their love. To keep a man, you must always be grateful for everything he does for you and the family. Imagine a wife who is so gentle, kind, and understanding—how could a husband bear to leave?
Staying at home with no hobbies
Staying home all day with no hobbies (playing on Facebook isn't a hobby), your husband will eventually lose interest in you. Constantly revolving around the kids and the kitchen—do you think men like that kind of woman? Don't be naive. Read more books, enrich your knowledge, and you'll have fresh topics to talk about next time you chat. Show him different sides of yourself regularly; that's how you better maintain your marriage.
Women, stop complaining about your unhappy marriages and look at what you've done. Have you made your marriage romantic? Have you kept your husband happy every day? Have you maintained harmony in your family? Have you made him yearn for you? Remember, a man's happiness is a woman's happiness. Of course, marriage is a partnership, and men also need to work hard to make it work for your family to be happy and lasting. With both of you working together, loving and understanding each other, your love will be the envy of everyone.
