2014 has come to an end. Throughout the year, celebrities have broken up and reunited. Apart from the reunion of Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse, which received blessings from most netizens, there were many more breakups and even divorces that attracted attention.
We tend to believe in the beautiful side of love, but in reality, its cruelty is a greater test. Celebrities, behind the screen, are just ordinary people who naturally experience the harsh realities of love and marriage. While we admire their glamorous lives, we might as well look at the truth about love through their experiences, especially those who are looking forward to love or have just entered into marriage. They should open their eyes wide and carefully identify the culprits that destroy relationships and marriages so they can avoid them in the future.
Feeling good
Of course, we all hope that the passion in our love will never fade, and sometimes we feel that we're doing quite well in relationships. However, the culprit behind a breakup might just be your overconfidence. Your strong sense of self-importance could be the biggest reason why your love cools down.
When it comes to deciding where to eat, where to travel, and so on, you always have to be the one to make the final decision. If he occasionally offers a different suggestion, you always stubbornly refuse. On the surface, men may seem cheerful and joking, but inside they might be harboring resentment. If you keep throwing tantrums and letting them build up, men won't be able to turn a blind eye anymore, and they'll break up with you the moment the love cools. Women, stop being so self-righteous!
Always pointless arguments
The passionate, fiery phase of love often lasts only a brief three months. During this honeymoon phase, a man's tolerance and understanding towards his girlfriend may be at its peak. Don't mistake this for heartlessness; it's simply a normal psychological reaction. What truly sustains love and makes you inseparable is how you nurture and cultivate your relationship.
Do you often have minor arguments? Are they all incredibly boring? Regardless of whether it's your fault or not, do you always resort to the silent treatment and wait for your boyfriend to apologize? When arguments arise, instead of trying to solve the problem, do you argue about whose side to take? Good heavens, naive woman, you still expect a man to pamper you like you did during the honeymoon phase? What a joke!
Every argument is essentially a cooling agent for men's love. Even if these small quarrels seem harmless and you can quickly make up, the fatigue and resentment that arise from the arguments are stored up inside the men. Over time, men begin to tire of this way of getting along, and they start to long for a new relationship to lead them out of this misery.
