Men and women have different views on married life. When dating, they may feel that everything about the two of them is perfect, but after marriage, they feel as if they have married a completely different person. When a man is dating, he values enjoyment, relishing the excitement and bliss of being with the woman. After marriage, a man values stability, taking on the responsibility and future of his woman.
1. Don't complain easily.
Complaining is a common trait among women. They have to talk about everything. When dating, men might respond with a few words, seeing it as a topic of conversation. But after marriage, men see it as nonsense, torture, and they get tired of hearing it. Men prefer peace and quiet to women. When a woman is silent, and he senses something is missing, he can't help but say a few words, thus developing a desire to talk to her.
II. Be a virtuous wife and loving mother
Laziness is a lifestyle many people aspire to. However, laziness only brings endless darkness, gradually making you feel like you're addicted to opium, losing your radiance. Men love gentle women, women who are hardworking and capable at housework. When a man is tired from work, he may not say much when he gets home, and he might just fall asleep, but he knows that all of this is thanks to the woman beside him. He may not say it, but he will remember it in his heart.
Third, be a thick-skinned woman.
Women are prone to tears in matters of the heart. When two people live together, misunderstandings are bound to arise. Perhaps, at that moment, he said hurtful things or did unfortunate things. Afterwards, even after realizing it was a misunderstanding, he fears the woman might hold a grudge.
Women should learn not to hold grudges. If there is a grudge and it is truly unbearable, then retaliate on the spot, and never keep it to yourself. For example, make him wash the dishes and mop the floor for a week, and then cook him a meal he likes as a reward.
Fourth, to fawn upon and praise him in public.
Perhaps, when a group of friends are sitting together and discussing sensitive topics, he might say something outrageous to save face. At this moment, a woman should learn to joke and flatter him. For example, if he mentions wanting to keep a mistress, you could reply, "Great idea! That way I won't have to worry about laundry and cooking." Learning to joke is a form of wisdom; as long as you know how to be considerate, it will bring you more rewards.
Fifth, wholeheartedly support his career.
A man's charm lies in his uprightness; he can support a family and shoulder the responsibilities of the future. A man who loves you will do everything he can to earn money. When he's doing this, don't think he's dull, because when he's tired, frustrated, or helpless, he feels you are his pillar. A woman's praise is a lubricant, a driving force; it's essential for a man, so women, please don't be stingy with your compliments.
6. Be a woman who knows how to pass the time.
A couple needs space. When a man is busy, he might not have time for you, but he'll worry that you're bored or lonely. It's good for a woman to have a job and an income, but if she's a housewife, she should also learn to manage her own time well and not revolve around him. When he has free time, they should make time for each other, and life will naturally become more interesting.
7. Be a knowledgeable, reasonable, and sexy woman.
Continuously enrich yourself, both in terms of appearance and inner qualities. Men enjoy admiring women and also appreciate their charm. Make him feel that you are both a book and a lily. Be sexy like a cat in the bedroom, but exude even more feminine allure in the living room with grace and elegance.
