Singles Survey Report: On average, you need to go on 5 blind dates to find love.
On May 20th, a popular online dating platform, a well-known dating website released a "2019 Q1 Singles Survey Report," analyzing key figures related to singles' relationships and uncovering the latest trends in dating and marriage. The survey revealed that single men and women typically start their first blind date under 23, with nearly half of those born after 1995 having blind date experience; on average, it takes about 5 blind dates to find love; those born in the 1990s have had fewer than 2 romantic relationships, while those born after 1995 have an average single period of over 2 years; 2 months is considered the golden period for pursuing love; the "2-3-5 method" is the latest dating rhythm; and the "seven-year itch" is giving way to the "two-year itch" in marriage.
One of the findings, "On average, you can meet your love after 5 blind dates," excited many single people who were busy with blind dates: "I'm no longer resistant to blind dates; maybe the next one will be my Mr. Right."
In our parents' generation, most couples met through arranged marriages. In our generation, however, everyone values free choice in love, and arranged marriages have become a way of meeting potential partners that many resist. But with societal development, the increasing number of older single men and women is causing parents anxiety, leading them to arrange various arranged marriages for their children. Some even go on several arranged marriages a day during their limited vacation time. As a result, we've become increasingly resistant to arranged marriages.
The report's conclusions undoubtedly give a boost to single men and women who are currently going on blind dates or about to go on blind dates, showing that it is possible to find true love through blind dates.
If you encounter these types of men on a blind date, never date them.
Yes, you can find true love through blind dates, so single women should feel free to go on them. However, I want to remind everyone to be discerning when going on blind dates. Never date the following types of men, no matter how many blind dates you go on.
1. Men with a high opinion of themselves
During blind dates, some men have an inflated sense of self-importance. They think they're being humorous by telling internet jokes or engaging in pretentious conversations about astronomy and geography they don't understand, believing this will elevate them and win the woman's heart. However, this behavior is merely a disguised way of belittling the woman. Men with such an inflated sense of self-importance are generally arrogant and lack humility. Being with such people can be exhausting, both mentally and physically.
2. Men who flaunt their wealth
During blind dates, many men treat women as "gold diggers" and boast about their houses and cars, thinking this will earn them respect. While love does require financial security, overemphasizing money while neglecting inner cultivation seems vulgar, and the relationship is unlikely to be romantic in the future.
