An ideal relationship might be one where, just being with that person makes you feel, "I really can't live without them," or where the initial fluttering of your heart gradually transforms into a sense of security with their presence. Being with that person makes you feel that even in this vast world, you still have a place for yourself. Everyone probably envies this kind of relationship, but to reach this stage, there are actually five unavoidable "trials" to endure. These are five tests that long-lasting, loving couples inevitably face in the early stages of their relationship, as compiled by a website. Let's take a look!
1. Suddenly unable to receive contact from the other party
Before falling in love, what men and women look forward to most is text messages, phone calls, or social media messages from each other. Although most of the time it's just about informing each other of trivial things, they still happily share jokes and discuss new events. Perhaps to outsiders they are talking about incredibly boring topics, but the people involved feel extremely happy and blissful.
However, if one suddenly stops receiving any contact from the other person under these circumstances, they will undoubtedly feel incredibly anxious, wondering, "Did I say something I shouldn't have?" They'll repeatedly reach for their phone to check, sighing repeatedly for not seeing any messages. But when they realize the other person is simply too busy to contact them, they'll breathe a sigh of relief and feel immensely at ease. Only then will they understand how much joy a single reply from the other person can bring. Passing this test is how much they truly care about the other person.
2. I heard that the other person has a very good relationship with other people of the opposite sex.
Feeling that their relationship is harmonious, they've always believed their feelings are mutual. However, if they learn that their partner is getting close to another woman, they often feel disappointed: "I always thought you liked me, but was it just wishful thinking on my part?" It's not just hearing rumors; sometimes they witness it firsthand, which is even more devastating. And in these moments, they realize even more clearly just how much they truly love their partner.
3. Suddenly receiving a call from the other party
When it comes to finding out the other person's true feelings, even the most adept person at handling relationship issues can become clueless. "I can answer other people's relationship problems so clearly, so why am I so confused when it comes to my own?" If the other person suddenly calls at this point, wouldn't you suddenly find yourself at a loss for words?
However, if you miss the call due to something sudden or because you're unavailable, you might find that the call can't be connected when you try to call back. At this point, you might feel lonely and develop a strong longing to see him right now and hear his voice as soon as possible.
4. The two of them took a walk together on a deserted night road.
Walking along a deserted night road, even with a lot to say, you might find yourself momentarily speechless, or feeling that speaking would disturb the beautiful atmosphere. Simply walking side-by-side in silence can fill you with happiness; the atmosphere between you, though quiet, is reassuring. At such times, you can't help but feel, "I wish we could walk side-by-side like this forever." Your love for each other deepens.
5. Spending more than half a day alone together.
After going through all these stages, you might feel like you're already dating, but you haven't officially defined your relationship yet. You're hesitant to confess, worried that it might all be wishful thinking on your part… In this frustrating dilemma, try finding opportunities to be alone together. You might find that you've unknowingly spent more than half a day together, thus realizing that the other person also enjoys being with you.
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