Divorce is a helpless choice made when a marital relationship reaches its end. In our minds, things that lead to divorce must be major events, such as having an affair, keeping a gigolo, domestic violence, or gambling and prostitution. However, surprisingly, the "triggers" for divorce are often minor matters, not the major issues we imagine.
One trigger for divorce: Trying to change your partner as if looking in a mirror.
We all know that women love to look in the mirror, and when they do, they always try to make themselves look their best to increase their approval rating. Women have the same habit with their daily partners, hoping to mold them into people they find pleasing, whether in appearance, temperament, or habits—ideally, becoming more and more like themselves. However, as they try to change, the man's forbearance eventually leads to arguments, even escalating into a war before divorce.
The second trigger for divorce: differing standards for oneself and others.
The woman believes it's normal to stay out late with friends, but she absolutely forbids her husband from doing the same, fearing he might be unfaithful. She sees conflicts with her mother-in-law as normal and doesn't believe it's worth the effort to repair the relationship, but her husband is expected to be unconditionally good to his in-laws. She considers chatting with other women normal and innocent, but her husband doing so is a major taboo. This drastically different double standard between the couple could easily lead to divorce.
The third trigger for divorce: All problems are the man's fault.
This type of woman thinks she's always right, constantly criticizing her husband and believing he's always at fault. Understand that to her husband, this woman is like a mermaid before marriage, but transforms into a great white shark afterward, relentlessly nitpicking his shortcomings. Men also have pride; if they have bad tempers and don't know how to apologize or communicate proactively, constant arguments can lead to divorce.
Fourth trigger for divorce: The other party takes many things for granted.
Women who maintain a "dating" mentality after marriage, failing to share responsibilities with their husbands, still expecting the same pampering as during courtship, and unwilling to do housework or work outside the home, leaving everything to their husbands. In families with good financial conditions, conflicts may be less frequent; however, if finances fail, domestic disputes are inevitable, potentially leading to divorce.
Don't let the word "divorce" linger on your lips. Divorce is detrimental to a woman or her family, unless the man has truly serious character flaws. For the sake of family harmony and to avoid divorce, please overlook minor issues and be tolerant of each other!
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