As the year draws to a close, many single men and women are starting to worry about how to "explain" their situation to their families. Without a boyfriend, blind date partners, or marriage prospects, their elders will undoubtedly arrange blind dates. So, how can they make a good start on their first blind date? How can they pay attention to details to prevent love from slipping away?
1. Choose a restaurant with suitable music.
First dates are always a little nerve-wracking, so choosing a quiet restaurant with soothing music is even better! Studies have shown that soft music makes women more likely to develop feelings for men, while jazz or a completely silent environment is also more appealing.
II. Make full use of body language
Experience shows that body language can often convey more information and express richer emotions. If you are not good at verbal communication, you should use your body language. It is estimated that on a first date, 55% of the first impression you leave on the other person depends on your appearance and body language, 38% depends on your speaking skills, and only 7% depends on the content of your speech.
3. Skillful text messaging
Sending text messages is one of the important ways for modern people to communicate. However, in some situations, using text messages does more harm than good and should be avoided as much as possible.
(1) When there are disagreements. When lovers or spouses have disagreements or conflicts, text message communication is more likely to lead to misunderstandings and may even further deteriorate the relationship. The best way in this case is to communicate face-to-face.
(2) Right after the first date. After a pleasant first date with a man, you may want to contact him, but don't text him immediately. Texting him right after parting ways may diminish his interest and anticipation.
(3) When drunk. When drunk, one may lose their senses. If you don't want him to see you talking incoherently, please turn off your phone after drinking, do not make calls, and especially do not impulsively send text messages.
(4) When a man feels embarrassed. If he has done something that makes him feel ashamed, such as taking the wrong way, receiving less pay, or encountering difficulties at work, please do not immediately text him to comfort him. This will make him feel that you remember his weak side. At this moment, it is best to stay by his side or change the subject.
