One of the bad temper traits: impatience and rudeness
Solution: Use softness to overcome hardness
Many young men are short-tempered and prone to being rough with their partners. This is due to an excess of male hormones in their bodies, and is also closely related to their personal experiences. Girls shouldn't panic or get angry when they encounter such partners. Our secret weapon is: gentleness overcomes rigidity.
The second bad temper trait: arrogance
Solution: Shift blame
A chauvinistic man always wants to be in charge, regardless of whether his decisions are right or wrong, and he's bound to be somewhat domineering. Changing him is probably unlikely, so we might as well be smart and choose to deflect responsibility, relying on him for everything, big or small, hoping he'll take the initiative to change when he sees his mistakes.
The third bad temper trait: psychological rebellion
Solution: Retreat as an advance
Many young people today are only children, spoiled from a young age, and have serious rebellious tendencies. Having a partner like this can be troublesome; they'll do the opposite of everything you say, and do the opposite of what you tell them to do. Faced with this type of partner, you can only retreat strategically and take a roundabout approach.
