Recently, Taiwan's "Today News Network" summarized some common mistakes wives make and gave four suggestions for creating a "perfect virtuous wife".
Don't be a "problem-solving expert." If your husband occasionally mentions work troubles, avoid saying things like, "Didn't I tell you?" or "You're doing it wrong." Even if you mean well, to him, these words negate his abilities. What a man needs is an outlet for his frustrations and a supportive wife who understands his perspective, not someone who pours cold water on his efforts or criticizes him.
Give him face in public. Don't complain about your husband in front of others, especially your parents, close friends, or superiors, and certainly don't say things like, "Please help me persuade him." Asking outsiders to advise your husband will make him lose face and he'll be reluctant to go out with you in the future.
Encourage men to be affectionate and playful. When your husband is unhappy, don't force him to talk about it. Instead, encourage him to show vulnerability and be affectionate. Or, give him a hug to let him know you will always support and be there for him; that's enough.
Protect your "family haven." Family is one of a man's greatest achievements. When he gets home from work, he most wants to eat a hot meal and hear his wife say, "You must be tired." Half of the day's fatigue instantly disappears.
