Based on interviews with several married men, the Japanese news website Livedoor has compiled a list of five moments that make men feel that being married is wonderful.
1. A 27-year-old architect said, "I can eat delicious meals every day after I got married."
"My wife cooks delicious meals for me every day after carefully considering nutritional balance, which makes me feel truly happy," the man said. Only with good health can one work well, so good health is very important. If a husband feels this way, then the wife's cooking for him has meaning.
2. A 30-year-old man working in advertising said, "After we got married, my wife always waited for me to come home late."
"I called and told her to go to sleep, it's okay, but my wife stayed up and waited for me to come home. I was so touched," the man said. Even after marriage, she always waited for him to come home before going to sleep; that's what captured his heart. When the husband calls, if the wife says "I know," the husband won't feel pressured by being waited for; that's a much better approach.
3. A 31-year-old saleswoman said, "I had an adorable child after getting married."
"Two people with a wonderful baby, watching their child grow every day, find them incredibly adorable." Indeed, life with just one's wife is like a continuation of a romantic relationship, but once a child is born, life immediately changes. Just thinking about the child's continuous growth brings immense joy.
4. A 25-year-old lecturer said, "Marriage is about two people sharing joys and sorrows."
"When two people can share the pain, their joy is doubled. We've always supported each other," the man said. It's precisely because they're married that they can support each other. They're there for each other in both happy and painful times; both of them must be incredibly courageous.
5. A 38-year-old sales professional commented, "Getting married puts my parents at ease."
"My parents have always worried about me. Getting married and having children is a way of showing filial piety," the man said. Perhaps starting a new family and giving parents grandchildren is closely related to filial piety.
After reading the above, do you also want to become a wife who makes your husband feel that marriage is truly wonderful?
