1. Don't target the other party at every turn.
Unconditional acceptance is a belief. A healthy marriage requires both parties to be willing to argue. For example, saying, "I would allow my little woman to do things that make her happy," can be hurtful and potentially demeaning. If your partner wears a bathrobe every day, lazily watching TV, and you don't say a word or ask any questions, you're not investing in their happiness. Perhaps they're in a bad mood, perhaps they're sick, perhaps they're just lazy. Whatever the reason, your silence makes them feel indifferent. You don't have the right to demand things from others; you also have an obligation to meet their needs.
Second, do not ask whether you love them.
Many women feel that their husbands don't love them as much after marriage, and that they've broken their promises. They also feel that when their husbands say they love them, it's just empty words. However, a man who truly loves you won't just say "I love you" all the time; he'll translate his love into actions, creating a better life for you. Therefore, don't overly question whether a man loves you; his hard work is the best proof of his love.
III. Try different changes
Many women often complain that men have changed and no longer cherish them once they've won them over. In reality, women also bear some responsibility; by remaining unchanged, they allow their partners to gradually become completely different from what they once were. No man dislikes novelty. Changing your image and trying different fashion trends will keep your partner feeling fresh and interested, even if your husband doesn't praise you verbally.
When couples are alone together, they can light candles for dinner; or they can cover their legs with blankets, watch the moon and chat on the balcony, rekindling the tenderness of their first love… Nowadays, many couples also enjoy a “lover’s way of making love,” which involves occasionally spending the night in a hotel. Enjoying sex in a relaxed way often makes one feel particularly at ease, reducing stress and enhancing intimacy. Love has no fixed formula, and neither does sex. Remember, creation itself is joyful. And one more thing: there is no best way, only the way that suits you.
IV. Properly Handling Sexual Life
Sexual intimacy between spouses is not merely a physical act; it is also an exchange of emotions. Therefore, maintaining a marriage requires proper handling of sexual relations. Many couples experience the intrusion of a third party due to improper handling of their sex lives. Generally, men's libido is stronger than women's, leading many women to use their husbands' desires as a means of control. This approach only breeds resentment and boredom in the husband, ultimately harming the marriage.
Fifth, be a virtuous wife and loving mother.
Many people today proclaim the need for gender equality, deeming the old ideas of "men plowing and women weaving," with men as the breadwinners and women as homemakers, outdated. However, regardless of societal development, a woman who loves to manage household chores, is gentle and diligent, will always be deeply loved by men. After a long day of work, a man will feel immense satisfaction upon returning home to a clean and tidy house and a delicious meal. He will also feel proud to have married such a virtuous and loving wife.
