According to media reports, a fire broke out at a vocational college in Liaoning Province. The cause was a freshman male student who wanted to confess his feelings to his "goddess" senior by setting off fireworks. However, the fire inadvertently caused a cornfield outside the school to catch fire. Fortunately, no one was injured. However, the "goddess" never appeared, but the incident became an internet sensation, with netizens jokingly commenting: "He rented out an entire cornfield for his goddess, what a grand declaration of love!" and "Youth should be lived to the fullest!"
Getting back to the main point, have you ever confessed your feelings to someone? Do you know what techniques you should master to increase your chances of success?
Confessing your feelings is an important moment in the beginning of love. Confessing to someone you like is both nerve-wracking and exciting. Even if you don't get a response, a successful confession will become a beautiful memory to cherish for a lifetime.
To confess your feelings, you must first understand the other person's feelings.
What does the person you like like? What kind of confession is more likely to touch their heart? Even if you present them with the best and most expensive gift in the world, it's not as good as a small gift that touches their heart, like flowers or a small thing they like. Do you understand this?
Setting off fireworks, lighting desserts, and waving candles might be the best ways to express love for romantic people. However, if the other person happens to be a low-key person who doesn't like to show off, they will not only think you are frivolous and unreliable, but they will also not accept your "good intentions".
Furthermore, if you don't understand the other person's feelings, it will make them feel that you don't know them well enough, and the sincerity of your confession will be diminished. So, be sure to do your homework before confessing!
What should I do if I get rejected after confessing my feelings?
Confessing your feelings won't always be successful, so you should be mentally prepared beforehand. What should you do when your anxiety turns into reality?
If you're rejected after confessing your feelings, it's possible they genuinely don't like you. In this case, instead of clinging on, it's better to leave them with a positive memory, or even better, become friends with them in the future. For the sake of youth, this is a perfectly acceptable choice. Of course, you might feel like you can't let go, but remember, forced relationships don't work. Letting go gives you a chance to meet someone who likes you. It's also possible that they actually have feelings for you, but just feel it's not the right stage yet. In that case, cheer up, try to get to know each other better, and strive for a successful confession next time.
In any case, you must remember one thing: the process of confessing your feelings is a matter between two people, and it is best not to "announce it to the public," especially if the confession fails, which may make both of you feel extremely embarrassed.
