1. You hope he will change for you.
This is one of the most common mistakes women in love make. You want him to stop staying up all night playing games for you, you want him to spend more time with you, and you even want him to give up his bad habits of smoking and drinking. But since he has so many "flaws," what was it about him that you fell in love with in the first place?
2. Strong self-awareness
To some extent, love also means a partial loss of self. You go from being a sleepyhead to a woman who gets up early to prepare breakfast for your partner; you no longer make decisions arbitrarily but are more willing to listen to your partner's opinions first... These are all manifestations of a change in your self-awareness, and also one of the standards for judging whether you are a selfish woman in love.
3. Always wanting your partner to give in
You force him to change careers simply because you think his current salary is too low; you insist on winning every argument with him over trivial matters… How to resolve problems in a relationship equally and rationally, without hurting his self-esteem and making him willing to accept them, is a must-learn lesson for every smart woman.
4. Never apologize
You believe that admitting mistakes is a sign of weakness, so "I'm sorry" is never in your vocabulary. Little do you know that these three words are just as important as "I love you."
