Recently, a news story about a husband chatting intimately with his female best friend online, which his wife discovered, has sparked heated discussions on Weibo.
Mr. Chen married his wife in 2008. In 2010, Mr. Chen met a girl online. The two chatted frequently online and gradually became close friends, discussing everything from family life to sex. His wife accidentally saw his chat history with his "female best friend" and filed for divorce, but he relented after family mediation. Afterward, his wife demanded that he use the office phone to call home from his office; take photos of his friends when eating out and send them to her via WeChat; send photos of himself on business trips, meals with friends, and meetings with clients; and give her his QQ password so she could access it anytime.
For the past four years, the husband had consistently followed the rules, even "signing in" eight times in one day. However, in the past week, due to being too busy at work, he missed three "sign-ins," which caused his wife to make a scene, even taking it to the neighborhood committee. Ultimately, the husband promised to "sign in" on time from now on, or he would be punished by doing housework for a week if he missed a single time.
As women become increasingly independent, the divorce rate remains high. We cannot say that divorce is a rash choice, but if you choose marriage, you should manage it well. Marriage inherently carries risks, and divorce requires even more caution. Consider learning the following three things to avoid entering a marital dead end.
Men are naturally attracted to beautiful women.
Men enjoy looking at beautiful women just as women enjoy looking at handsome men; it's a purely instinctive reaction, and it doesn't prove whether men are lustful or not. While women may not like men looking at other women, they shouldn't complain excessively, as this will make him think they're petty.
Don't listen to what he says, watch his actions.
Some men like to sweet-talk you and deceive you completely, but in the end, it's all for nothing. Some men are introverted and don't like to talk, but they are sincere towards you. Only a woman knows this. A woman should look at what a man does, not what he says.
The key to a successful marriage lies in communication.
Men work hard outside the home to make their families and children live better lives, but women shouldn't spend money recklessly without considering their husbands' wishes. When it comes to spending large sums of money, women should consult their husbands and respect their opinions.
