1. What was the reason for your breakup?
Infidelity, differing values, vastly different lifestyles, interference from both families... there are many reasons for a breakup. Identifying the root of the problem can help you adjust your expectations of each other after the relationship restarts and take steps to resolve these issues.
2. Are you confident in facing the challenges in your relationship?
If you've experienced a less-than-pleasant breakup, there will likely be some resentment between you. Getting back together will put your guard and vigilance on a new level. The pain of the breakup will also negatively impact this new relationship, requiring sufficient trust and patience to overcome.
3. Do the people around you support this decision?
Bystanders are often the ones who can best perceive the problems between you. Before deciding to get back together, you might as well ask your family or friends what they have to say; they may be able to give you good advice.
4. Are you just being dependent?
Are you unable to adjust to life without him? Did you decide to get back together with him because you felt lonely after the breakup? Do you understand your true feelings? Don't let this wrong decision waste your time.
