A mother in Hangzhou was worried because her daughter had been working for three years but still hadn't found a boyfriend. Not wanting her to become a "leftover woman," she took out 12 property certificates and used them to find a husband for her 25-year-old daughter, saying, "I'm going all out to show my family's wealth for my daughter."
Once the news was reported by the media, it attracted more criticism than the effect of finding a husband for his daughter. Some netizens even quoted a popular phrase to comment on the incident: "Being rich means you can do whatever you want."
Regardless of the circumstances, this mother's act of helping her daughter find a husband must have stemmed from her deep love for her daughter. However, at the tender age of 25, it's really embarrassing to call her a "leftover woman," especially nowadays, as women are getting married later and later. Many women around 30 years old have a good mindset and are waiting for the right person to spend their lives with.
Even if you do become one of those "leftover women," don't just get married casually. You still need to understand your own situation and find the most suitable person for you.
Does being single mean you no longer need to be reserved? While it's true that you should seize the opportunity when you meet someone you like, being too direct sometimes doesn't work. Try subtly finding out more about the guy first, and also frequently visit places he frequents to deepen his impression of you. Let him get to know you better and slowly test whether he has feelings for you.
If both parties are attracted to each other, they can naturally start dating. However, be careful not to bring your professional image into the dating process. At work, we all need to project intelligence and perfection, but not all men like overly intelligent women. Occasionally playing dumb, making him feel you rely on him, especially with knowledgeable men, asking him professional questions might be more likely to win his favor.
The most important thing to pay attention to is your attire. A completely unkempt "tomboy" look is certainly undesirable, but overly professional clothing is also inappropriate for a date, making the other person feel like they're meeting a business partner rather than a romantic partner. It's best to match his preferences, carefully choose your outfit, and apply a warm, light makeup look. By striking a balance between formality and gentleness, you can firmly capture his heart.
