1. He believes he is more suitable for girls and can bring them happiness.
A 31-year-old man said, "When I hear a girl I like complaining about her boyfriend, I always feel that I am the right person for her and I can make her happier. That makes me even less likely to give up."
To better understand men's psychology, many girls choose to confide their relationship troubles to their male friends. This easily triggers a sense of superiority in the male friend, making him feel, "I am the right person, and only I can bring you happiness."
2. I like girls who are devoted to one person.
A 28-year-old man said, "When I hear that a girl is still sweet and loving with her boyfriend of a long time, I think, 'Girls who are so devoted to love are wonderful!' I'm attracted to her without even realizing it."
Women who are devoted to love are very attractive. Their sweet and loving relationship with their long-term boyfriends can make single men think, "She's a good girl, and if I date her, she'll definitely be devoted to me too," thus making them fall for her.
3. Natural physical contact causes the heart rate to increase.
A 26-year-old man said, "Women with boyfriends are less wary of other men and have more physical contact with them. For example, they might touch shoulders when greeting each other, or lean on my shoulder to stand up while drinking at a party. Such natural physical contact makes my heart race."
Many women in relationships think, "I already have a boyfriend, he won't treat me like a romantic partner," and therefore don't care much about physical contact with other men. In fact, men think the exact opposite.
4. They like the gentle expression that women only show in front of their boyfriends.
A 30-year-old man said, "I ran into my colleague on the street during my vacation. She was dressed more beautifully than usual, and I had never seen her like that before. The tender look in her eyes, which she only shows in front of her boyfriend, really attracted me."
When a woman who usually keeps a serious expression at work shows a gentle expression that is not common in her daily life, this stark contrast to her usual demeanor is more likely to make a man's heart race.
5. He believed that he would be very happy to date her.
A 34-year-old man said, "When I hear a girl happily describing her date with her boyfriend, I can't help but feel that dating her would be very happy."
In situations like this, single men often start imagining dating the girl and thus develop feelings for her.
