Good listener
Instead of immediately commenting or criticizing a guy's complaints and troubles, she listens attentively and gives him encouraging looks... making him want to share everything with her.
Respond when listening to others speak
Listening to others doesn't mean being a wooden statue, only listening without speaking. If you ask for details or chime in at appropriate times, you let the other person know that you are paying attention, rather than just looking at them while actually spacing out, letting the words go in one ear and out the other, forgetting them completely after an hour...
Love to laugh
Always keep a smile on your face, even when things don't go your way, you can laugh it off and not spread negativity to others, you're full of positive energy!
Has a wide range of expressions
When she's angry, she glares; when she's happy, she grins and laughs loudly; when she's shy, she lowers her head and blushes; and her adorable coquettishness is irresistible... The natural expressions of a healing girl can captivate a boy's heart, and her straightforwardness makes her easier to approach. In her presence, one can almost be themselves.
Not talkative
She knows when to stop talking, and doesn't go on to make a big deal out of nothing or force conversation. This gives people space to calm down and think, and naturally makes people feel relaxed around her, even in silence.
Appropriate sense of distance
She won't be overly clingy, nor will she deliberately act aloof. She'll appear to rescue you when you need her, and she won't flirt with others. Thinking of her will make you feel warmly enveloped in your heart.
I often say thank you.
When we were young, our elders would always tell us to say "please," "sorry," and "thank you." Do you remember to maintain this politeness now that you're an adult? Even when you're with a date or a friend, sincerely saying "thank you" will definitely improve your relationship, and others will see your thoughtfulness.
Actually, being a healing girl is really simple. As long as you can spread warmth and kindness to others, it's easy to reach the threshold mentioned above!
