Nothing is more beautiful than a girl's heart. Girls with boyfriends hope their boyfriends can create romantic scenes straight out of a TV drama. Single girls hope to meet their Prince Charming and experience a romantic love story. Actually, you can create your own TV drama-like romance! Check out these four methods from happy couples for creating a TV drama-like romance in your everyday life. Let you too become the protagonist of your own romantic story!
1. Imitating behaviors from TV dramas
“I really love romantic dramas, and I can’t help but dream about them every time I see the romantic interactions between the male and female leads. I once waited in the rain for my boyfriend after we had a fight and he never came back. Although it sounds heartbreaking, I’ve always longed for this kind of scene that often appears in dramas, so I actually felt happy. Looking back now, I think it’s a beautiful memory of my youth, and I’m really glad that I was so silly back then.”
If you want that romantic love story from TV dramas, why not start by imitating the actions of the male and female leads? Whenever you see a cute thing the female lead does, try to remember it and "perform" it in front of your boyfriend sometime. You might be surprised by the results! Sometimes you can also take the initiative and sweetly ask your boyfriend, "Come and pounce on me!" It feels great to bring scenes from TV dramas into real life, and imitating things from dramas every day can make ordinary life more interesting. However, be careful not to overdo it or imitate anything too silly!
Liu Kaiwei also revealed that he often uses this trick to "flirt" with Yang Mi, and they have a lot of fun "wall-pinning" moments at home. Huang Xiaoming and Angelababy also frequently reenact romantic scenes from TV dramas, with carefully planned romantic surprises and a constant barrage of flowers. Clearly, this trick is an effective way to maintain a romantic relationship.
2. Don't mistake chance for chance.
"I never consider chance occurrences as accidents, because if you ignore chance, you might miss out on great opportunities. Many unexpected things happen in life every day. If you just ignore them all, wouldn't life become very boring? Even a chance encounter can be seen as a prelude to love. You can secretly imagine how wonderful things will turn out, and that will make you happier."
In TV dramas, the protagonists' meeting, getting to know each other, and falling in love are almost always driven by a series of unexpected events. If you want a romantic love like in a TV drama, why not learn to "not treat coincidences as coincidences" in real life? For example, if you meet a handsome guy on the street by chance, or suddenly receive a gift from someone you don't know, simply taking it all in stride won't feel romantic. But if you happily tell yourself, "Something unexpected happened, maybe it's fate guiding us!" even if nothing ultimately happens, at least your ordinary life will be filled with excitement and novelty, and you'll be happy too.
3. Occasionally dressing up
"Girls are always happy when they are invited to a wedding ceremony, right? On the one hand, it's a happy occasion, and on the other hand, it gives them the opportunity to dress up and put on beautiful makeup. Even if I'm not invited to any major occasions, I always dress up once a month. It makes me feel more feminine, more confident, and more positive about love."
If you don't have the opportunity to dress up in your finest attire, you can still make a point of attending formal occasions that require it. This will subtly change your ordinary life, and perhaps love will unexpectedly come your way.
4. Try new things
"After noticing that my life was becoming monotonous, I started to consciously try new things, such as going to places I had never been before, doing things I had never done before, and making new friends. As a result, I had more opportunities to meet men, and love seemed to be getting closer to me."
Are you tired of your mundane life? Instead of drifting along, why not make some changes now? For example, set a goal to try something new every day. Over time, this might lead to big changes, and romantic love will be closer to you.
For couples in love, a few unintentional little tricks can help keep your love loving and romantic forever.
Naïve and romantic love letters
When feelings fade over time, why not launch a romantic offensive? Have you forgotten the age-old method of expressing love: love letters? Years ago, in the days of writing by hand, the warmth of a letter, the happiness of a love letter—feel the deep affection conveyed through every stroke of your pen. As long as it's written by yourself, even if it's a little childish, it doesn't matter; a brave lover is welcome everywhere.
Romantic candlelight dinner
The two of you could agree to spend a romantic evening together, or perhaps prepare a healthy meal together and enjoy some private time. While the method may not be elaborate, the effortless collaboration will fully express your deep affection. Then, amidst the delicious food, light some colorful candles, and the two of you, bathed in candlelight, can make a wish together, capture the moment with a selfie, and enjoy a romantic yet meaningful holiday. Afterwards, go see a movie together, and the entire night will be filled with romance—it's impossible not to feel sweet!
Intimate contact with subtle tricks
Holding hands and hugging are common during courtship, but these intimate gestures seem to decrease after marriage. Actually, they still happen after marriage. Take advantage of opportunities like crossing the street or climbing stairs to casually take his hand. Go to a mountaintop to watch the stars or to a lakeside to admire the moonlit night, enjoying a romantic evening just for the two of you. This won't be any less intimate than indoor activities, because outdoors, with beautiful lighting and romantic scenery, the atmosphere will be even more enchanting!
Rich Chocolate
Chocolate is usually given as a Valentine's Day gift, but it can also be given on some special occasions. Knowing the other person's taste, if you have a tender and hesitant crush, use milk chocolate to confess your feelings, letting her know your gentleness and thoughtfulness. If you give her nut chocolate, your fiery passion will also be conveyed! Marriage, like dating, needs romance and warmth to enhance it; it's just that marriage is more serious and formal, but that doesn't mean it doesn't need a little romance to rekindle dormant passion. Go try it!
Love is a two-way street, and the way two people interact is crucial for a romantic relationship. Even when disagreements arise, try to maintain a romantic and fulfilling connection!
Encouragement and praise are the most important
When a man and a woman first fall in love, they will naturally praise each other's strengths. As the relationship settles down and the initial passion cools down, they do this less often. Even though they are still very fond of each other, they will no longer loudly express their praise and encouragement.
If genuine praise and encouragement are lacking, the wonderful feelings and gratitude that the initial praise brings to each other will be greatly reduced, directly resulting in a weakening of the emotional bond between the two people.
Therefore, you must encourage him as much as possible, treat him as someone worthy of praise, and tell him that you are fascinated by a certain characteristic of him, especially aspects that men are proud of but rarely know how others perceive them, such as his good social skills, little-known quirks, or even his fit physique.
Just tell me what you want.
Many women wish their husbands or boyfriends were super-sensory, capable of performing romantic gestures without explanation. However, people with such abilities are extremely rare. They can't plant eavesdropping devices in your mind to decipher your thoughts at any time. If they knew you were waiting for them to decipher your thoughts, they would only find it both amusing and frustrating.
In a healthy relationship, this kind of guessing game should be resolutely avoided. The most stable and profound love requires unimpeded communication as its foundation. It's best to directly express what you need, what's troubling you, and what you hope your partner will say or do. Silently sulking will leave your partner feeling confused and frustrated, easily leading to conflict.
Harmless quirks can be ignored.
After couples or lovers have lived together for a long time, their personal habits and quirks will inevitably become apparent. No matter how much he makes your heart flutter, living together is just the beginning of a test of your patience and tolerance. He might whistle while tying his tie every morning before work, or he might always leave his used towels on the floor. No matter how strange these little quirks are, a wise woman should choose to ignore them. You'll soon find that turning a blind eye to these little things is definitely more beneficial than harmful to your relationship. Since they've been formed over many years, there's absolutely no need to waste time and energy making a big fuss about them; don't let small things cause bigger problems.
Contact at least once a day
Wouldn't you feel incredibly happy if you received a text message from your partner every afternoon? Perhaps you'd see each other that evening, but he would maintain this habit regardless, even if it was just a few words. This text becomes a bond between you, letting you know that he's thinking of you despite his busy schedule. What could be more touching than that? This practice is very common among couples in strong relationships; they won't let each other lose contact, not even for a day. In today's fast-paced society, with its heavy work pressure, it's possible for two people to go several days without seeing each other. Whether it's a phone call, text message, email, or even a small note on the pillow, it's all about expressing: although we can't meet in person, our hearts are always together.
Happiness can be created by oneself
Couples who frequently attend various parties and gatherings are often viewed with skepticism. Those who truly have the potential for a lasting relationship are the couples who are content with their own world. They don't need to seek security in social networks; they are perfectly happy in their own world. Truly happy couples cherish every ordinary moment together. They are content simply being together, needing no one else to disturb them, and finding satisfaction without any activities or games.
Is it really possible? You might not believe it, but a couple with a good understanding can sit on the sofa for hours, each reading their own book, chatting about their daydreams, or even just sitting together in silence, without needing to create topics or have background music, because for them, being able to be by each other's side is enough.
Love also needs to be checked for progress.
It's not about requiring the two of you to hold a weekly meeting to discuss whether your recent investment in the relationship has been completed on time and to the required standard. Nor is it about launching into criticism and self-criticism every time insecurity or friction arises. It's essential that the two of you can openly discuss the relationship and manage its progress. Regularly reflecting on your actions and inner thoughts can help you identify and resolve minor bumps in the road of your relationship—a method often used by close couples and worth learning.
Always respect each other
If you want to know whether a couple's relationship is deep or in trouble, just observe their facial expressions and tone of voice during conversations. If either of them frequently rolls their eyes, sneers, or makes sarcastic remarks, it's safe to say their relationship is unlikely to last. If one person always acts superior to the other, it indicates a lack of basic respect, a bad habit that every couple should try to overcome.
