1. A single man who is overly concerned with his mother-in-law and mother-in-law
This type of man is extremely fastidious about life. He doesn't trust anyone else's actions and criticizes endlessly. From spending a lot of money on a house or car to choosing the right vinegar for dumplings, he has to give his opinion on everything, showing 100% concern. This kind of man is less attentive and more nagging. He can't give you any peace and quiet; wherever he is, you'll never have a moment of peace. Everyone else seems superfluous. He's incredibly annoying.
2. A stingy and shrewd single man
They announce the maximum cost for each date beforehand, and after taking a woman out to dinner, they expect her to reciprocate. Each time they invite her to dinner, they publicly announce the cost, as if to tell others they've done her a huge favor. Women can't expect to benefit from them in any way; women are concerned with saving face and getting an advantage, at least wanting their own interests protected. Stingy men rarely meet this expectation, and women often give up after just two invitations. Dating them is simply asking for trouble.
3. Melancholy single men
They take life too seriously, exaggerate problems, and constantly ask, "What should I do?" and complain about how frustrating it is. The air around them is oppressive; that gloomy atmosphere is easily contagious. They offer no hope, only the darkness and desolation of life. Being with them, you have to guess what's bothering them, why they're unhappy. Generally, these men won't pursue girls, nor will any girls actively pursue them.
4. Cold and selfish single men
This kind of man will never consider you a woman and will never tolerate you. In his eyes, women should be the ones to take the initiative. In front of girls, he will be cold and indifferent, defiantly telling you not to expect him to pursue you—it's impossible. He will push the blame onto women when things go wrong, then walk away, losing both his image and opportunities, and the feelings and good impression women have of him. No woman will be interested in a man who has no chivalry or tenderness towards women.
5. A single man living a muddled and aimless life
The idea that "flowers planted with care may not bloom, while willows planted unintentionally may thrive" should have been discarded long ago. Everything is earned through effort, intelligence, and wisdom. If money and status were readily available to you, the world wouldn't be filled with so much discontent. Every man should set ambitious goals beforehand. Only men who relentlessly strive towards their goals will radiate vitality, self-reliance, and endless charm. A man without ambition, drifting aimlessly, is like a walking corpse—lacking energy and brilliance.
Men often hope to find a girlfriend who is both elegant and domestic, but before setting such conditions, male friends must examine themselves to see if they have the ability and strength to achieve this. Especially the single men mentioned above, if you want to find a girlfriend, first learn to change yourself! The above content is exclusively authorized for use only and may not be reproduced without the copyright holder's authorization.
