Women often lack a sense of security, a point on which both women and men would likely agree. Women frequently ask men questions like, "Do you love me?", "Will you always love me?", "Do you really love me?", and even when the man's answer is yes, she might still vehemently shout, "You're lying!"
Dear girl, are you feeling uneasy?
1. Standards were set for choosing a spouse.
Many people don't believe in love; they believe deep down that love only exists in fairy tales, a figment of human imagination. As a result, we see many people setting numerous standards for choosing a partner, specifying what conditions they must meet before entering a relationship. This often reflects a lack of security.
2. Likes corners and windows
We often see a beautiful woman sitting in a corner of a library or restaurant, and we can guess that she might be rather solitary. Generally speaking, women who like to sit by the window are very cautious in their actions or relationships. Sitting by the window might make them feel supported, thus providing them with a sense of psychological balance, which is also a serious manifestation of a lack of security.
3. They like hugs and sweet talk.
In a relationship, women naturally want to hold hands or hug their partner, as hugging someone they like or who is closest to them can enhance their sense of security and alleviate their inner anxieties. Some women especially enjoy sweet words from their partners, and women who like to hear sweet words are usually particularly vulnerable and cannot bear to hear others point out their shortcomings or weaknesses. This makes them extremely uneasy and touches the most vulnerable part of their hearts.
4. Likes to hug something while sleeping
If you like to hug something while sleeping, it's a sign of a woman's lack of security. A lack of security can easily cause a person to retreat into their own world, unwilling to step out and connect with others. Hugging something and curling up while sleeping often reflects a lack of trust in others and reveals some kind of inner fear or anxiety.
5. Nostalgic, likes old things
Women who lack a sense of security tend to be nostalgic, fond of old things, and nostalgic for old people and events. New things create a sense of insecurity for them, making it difficult to grasp. Therefore, they often struggle to take the first step in a relationship, and even after confirming their commitment, they may feel out of place.
6. Stays up late and likes to sleep with the lights on.
Women who lack a sense of security are often afraid of the dark, yet they often stay up late. It sounds a bit self-destructive. It's like they like listening to music, the more they listen, the sadder they become, yet they continue listening to sad songs.
7. Became more active in online chatting.
In real life, there are often people who are quiet in person but become unusually active online. Because the internet is virtual, they can speak freely, chat naturally and boldly with men online, and seek comfort online. They won't face embarrassment for saying the wrong thing and can even enjoy the ambiguity like lovers. Even if things end badly, they can immediately block each other, and neither will interfere with the other. The above content is exclusively authorized for use and may not be reproduced without the copyright holder's authorization.
