1. He will be interested in the things you like.
"Playing to her interests" is a strategy many guys use when pursuing girls. When a man loves you, in order to enter your world, he'll accompany you to concerts he's not particularly interested in, to boring art museums, to TV dramas he doesn't like, and even willingly go shopping with you like a servant. He always wants to be by your side, loves to see the smile on your face, and wants to feel your happiness.
2. He will contact you frequently.
A man who loves you may not say goodnight to you every night before bed, but he will definitely maintain relatively frequent contact with you. Even if he's busy at work during the day, he'll still find time to send you a text message during lunch. If he frequently goes several days without contacting you, then your chances of getting together are probably slim.
3. He will introduce you to his relatives and friends.
A man who loves you will try every means to enter your world, and at the same time, he hopes you can enter his life too. A man who likes you will introduce you to his friends, but a man who loves you will introduce you to his family. He will take you home willingly and frequently bring you to family activities, hoping you can integrate into their circle.
4. Ask your brothers for advice about your relationship problems.
When a man gets a girlfriend, his friends will definitely know. If he's just playing around with you, he'll only brag to his buddies about having a girlfriend with big breasts and a pretty face. But if he's sincere, he'll definitely ask his friends for advice on relationship problems—"She and I had a fight yesterday, how do I make up for it?" or "Her birthday is next month, I want to surprise her, do you guys have any good ideas?"
5. His friend is very polite and friendly to you.
It has to be said that you can really learn a lot from a man's friends. Men in love are often not good at expressing themselves, but they'll open up to their brothers. If a man loves you, his friends will definitely be polite and friendly towards you. If his friends only joke around with you, or even sometimes offend you, it means you're just being played.
6. Your number has an appropriate nickname in his phone.
This is a point often overlooked by women, but it's extremely important! Modern people are inseparable from their phones, and you can often glean clues from them. If he adds qualifiers when typing your name, such as "May at the gym," or doesn't even have your number saved in his phonebook, be careful! Because in the eyes of a man who truly loves you, you are unique and don't need any qualifiers to help him remember you.
7. It will leave a trace in your WeChat Moments.
A man who loves you wants to know everything you're doing, so he'll constantly check your social media posts. He'll comment on every emoji, picture, or even just a period you post. He'll share your joy and show concern and care when you're sad. Eventually, you'll realize that he's left his mark on every single one of your posts.
8. He will reserve time for you.
Some men always use "being busy" as an excuse to avoid dates. Actually, men, like women, also need to set aside time for things they consider important. If he consistently can't make time for you, it means you don't hold a high place in his heart. "I'm busy this week, maybe next time" is really just a way of saying, "Stay away, I'll contact you when I remember."
9. Take the initiative to greet your family.
A man who loves you will extend that love to your family and friends, showing them kindness and concern. If you help your best friend move, he'll help you with the heavy lifting; if your elders accidentally sprain their ankles, he'll accompany you to visit them. However, showing concern for your best friend might cause unnecessary misunderstandings. Usually, he'll be more concerned about your family—"I heard Grandpa sprained his ankle last week, is he alright now?"
10. He will respect your time.
He'll ask you when you're free beforehand for every date, and he'll be at the agreed-upon location on time – these are all signs of respect. If he always only thinks of you at the last minute, you'd probably feel like he doesn't value you enough.
11. He will talk to you about marriage.
Men who refuse to make commitments don't love you enough. A man who loves you will talk about marriage in everyday life, even if he hasn't proposed yet. Saying things like, "This ornament is cute, we can buy it and put it on our bedside table," or "Let's get a new one after we get married," shows that in his heart you are already his wife, and he is looking forward to marriage.
12. He won't take you to places of entertainment.
Many men enjoy going to bars and karaoke rooms for entertainment, but these places are too noisy and unsuitable for couples to cultivate their relationship. If he frequently takes you to these places, you should consider his true intentions. A man who truly loves you will always choose relatively quiet places for dates, allowing for deeper understanding and communication.
13. When he's with you, he'll be mindful of his image.
As the saying goes, "Women dress up for those they love," and this applies to men as well, especially when meeting someone for the first time. If a man is always disheveled and unkempt when he's with you, it's clear he doesn't value you that much.
If you've already met a man like this, congratulations! You've met someone who genuinely wants a relationship with you. If not, move on! Life is short, don't waste your time on Mr. Wrong! The above content is exclusively authorized for use only and may not be reproduced without the copyright holder's authorization.
