Recently, an online survey was conducted on the phrases women hate most, and the results showed that the top ten were the things men most often say to their girlfriends. It seems this has caused countless moments of resentment for girlfriends... But what's puzzling is that these phrases aren't actually that annoying!
No wonder you dislike them! That's just your feeling. If that's really what you think, it means you don't understand women well enough!
Differences in male and female thinking
Men and women differ not only in appearance but also in their ways of thinking. According to relationship experts, men communicate to convey information, while women focus more on expressing their feelings. Therefore, when women ask you questions, they're not necessarily looking for answers; what matters most is your attitude and your care for them.
Top 1 phrase women hate most: Drink more hot water
As the champion of the most hated phrases by women, I have to say, this is indeed a universal phrase. No matter what's wrong with his girlfriend, the boyfriend can always shut her up with "drink more hot water." However, by saying this, you've also stepped on her sore spot. A male friend said, "If my girlfriend isn't feeling well, not answering will make her even angrier, and I can't do anything else to help, so I can only use this phrase to express my concern."
The woman's complaint was, "When I have a cold or menstrual cramps, what I want most is care and attention, but when he said that, it was clearly just a perfunctory response."
Top 2 most hated phrases by women: What's wrong with you now?
If you change the sentence to "What's wrong with you?", women won't find it offensive. But adding "again" will make women feel like they are a nuisance, and that you are annoyed by the trouble.
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Top 3 most hated words by women: Hehe
Using interjections is a way to express emotions. "Hehe" is an onomatopoeia for laughter, but it can be misunderstood in many situations. Online, most people understand "hehe" as "not knowing what to say, but having to reply" or "expressing helplessness towards what the other person has done or said." Therefore, when men reply with "hehe," women are often angry.
Top 4 phrases women hate most: "We'll talk about it later"
When two people are discussing something, if the man doesn't want to listen, he'll say "we'll talk about it later," which often annoys the woman. It gives the impression of being irresponsible, and who wouldn't be angry upon hearing that?
Top 5 phrases women hate most: It's all my fault
This is the most common thing a man says when he admits his mistake, but the more you say it, the angrier a woman gets. Why? Because this sentence doesn't show that you have any intention of correcting your mistake; she just wants to shut you up.
Top 6 most hated words by women: 随便 (suíbiàn)
"Whatever" is a phrase often uttered by men, who feel it's the most appropriate word when ordering food or buying things, but it can actually annoy women.
When a man says "whatever," he means "It's up to you!" But what a woman really means is, "You don't care about this."
Top 7 phrases women hate to hear: Are you still there?
When a man says "Are you still there?", a woman will feel that you don't want to listen to her and are eager to end the conversation.
Top 8-10 most hated phrases for women: Have you eaten? You're busy, go to bed early.
These are the kinds of things you hear most often in life, but why do they evoke disgust in women? It's because they're so commonplace and shouldn't be in conversations between couples. Asking these questions clearly indicates a lack of topics to discuss, leading to nothing more than polite formalities.
Language is an art; besides answering questions, it can also express emotions. At any time, those who speak well will gain more recognition.
