Whether it's arranged marriage or free love, we all hope to find a "good man." However, some women subscribe to the idea that "women don't love men who aren't a little bad," and instead prefer men who are a bit roguish. But please stay away from the following types of "bad" men.
1. Someone who, having just met you, uses "I love you" as a pretext to try and get into bed with you.
No matter how sweet his words, no matter how many promises he makes about the future, be wary of men who rush into bed with you after only a short time or before the relationship has deepened. Don't assume that just because he wants you, it means he loves you. While society has progressed and men and women are no longer as conservative and traditional about sex as they used to be, don't assume that refusing sex means refusing love, at least in the early stages of a relationship. These are two different concepts. Therefore, don't sleep with him before establishing a relationship! Even if you have strong physical needs, don't. Because the end result of sleeping with him might be that you're just one of his playthings.
2. Poor man
This isn't to say that men are inherently materialistic or snobbish. In reality, many men who have experienced poverty and hardship since childhood have hardened their hearts, becoming selfish and closed-minded. This is especially true of those who are good-looking; they are often even more pragmatic and mercenary. Such men must be eliminated. Remember, one day, when such men become successful, they will reveal their ruthless and heartless side. The more you invest in them, the greater the harm you will suffer.
3. Divorced men whose careers have failed
There's always a reason why a divorced man is unsuccessful in his career and leaves a feeling of utter despair. Perhaps he's indulging in lust and neglecting his work, or perhaps he has character flaws and faces setbacks everywhere. Such a person not only fails in his family life but also in his career. If you're attracted to his boastful talk, you're doomed. Furthermore, these men often appear honest and kind, and it's precisely these kinds of men that you should avoid! Because the truly sexually frustrated people aren't wealthy bachelors, but rather these kinds of men. For a moment of pleasure, they'll say and do anything.
4. They appear and disappear without a trace, their background is unknown, and they won't let you see their family or friends.
Some men are just looking for a fling. So, if you're dating a man over 25 and you don't know him very well, if you want a long-term relationship, you'd better understand his background before developing a romantic connection. Otherwise, you might end up as the other woman. As for men who claim to be divorced, be extremely wary. Bad men often exaggerate their painful experiences, which is usually fabricated to gain your sympathy and affection.
5. A man who treats you like a precious gem, afraid to even touch you or hold you in his mouth.
This kind of man may treat you very well, but if one day you feel it's not right and want to break up, his intense reaction will leave you bewildered. Overly cautious men are a no-go. However, regardless of looks, even when rejecting a boy who is truly sincere, you should consider his feelings. While some boys may start out kind-hearted but become cold-blooded heartbreakers after being hurt, girls are not without responsibility in this regard.
6. Middle-aged men who like to get close to little girls
Mature and wealthy middle-aged men aren't necessarily good people. Although they are experienced and know how to care for others, these days, many middle-aged men are adept at playing a combination of father and lover, offering warmth and care while attempting to possess your innocence and beauty. Once given the opportunity, hurt is inevitable.
