Blind dates are a common way for modern men and women to meet new friends, especially for older women busy with their careers. However, the success rate of blind dates is not very high. Many women who have been on blind dates complain that their partners are too eccentric, the dates are too awkward, and the marriage success rate is too low. So how can blind dates lead to a happy marriage?
In reality, the success rate of blind dates is not low!
Data shows that half of people who go on blind dates find a suitable partner within 10 attempts, and 80% find one within 30 attempts. In other words, unless you're a really bad person, you should be able to find a reliable partner within 37 blind dates.
Therefore, blind dates are a game of finding a partner, and everything should be done naturally. If married life is a leaping, surging flame, then a blind date is like a match to light the flame, and the other person is the matchbox. Only when the match and the matchbox match can sparks be generated at the moment of friction, or even ignite a raging fire.
To increase your chances of success in blind dates, you only need to do two things!
1. Adjust your mindset; blind dates are a good way to expand your social circle.
Ladies, don't expect to find your life partner on a single blind date. You'll meet countless men of all kinds on blind dates, and after much deliberation, you'll be overwhelmed with choices and end up with none to your liking, or the person you like might not reciprocate your feelings. The truth is, it's unlikely that a conversation between strangers lasting only an hour or two will spark a flame of love.
Don't be discouraged. Treat each blind date as a good opportunity to expand your social circle, actively meet new friends, and don't treat him as just a blind date. Only by making friends with a relaxed attitude can you talk to him frankly, discover his strengths and weaknesses, and judge whether he is a potential romantic partner.
2. If you think your blind date is reliable, you should take the initiative.
While repeated blind dates may sometimes be tedious, they can also lead you to a man you like. Once that man appears and seems reliable, don't let him go. Many girls are too shy and simply wait silently for a response after a blind date, missing out on opportunities along the way.
To increase your chances of a successful blind date, don't hesitate to take the initiative. After the date, flirt with the man occasionally—call him or leave a message on social media. Don't think that doing this will lower your self-worth; in fact, this is perfectly normal and acceptable for ordinary friends. Who knows, maybe, as you keep flirting, this blind date man will become your husband.
Don't always think that the success rate of blind dates is too low. Doing the two things mentioned above can increase your success rate by 50%! Ladies, for your own happiness, let's ignite a blazing fire in the battle of blind dates!
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