A happy marriage requires a mature man and a considerate woman to build it together. As women, we all hope our men have a sound and mature view of marriage. A man's maturity largely determines whether a woman's marriage will be happy. However, some women are unlucky enough to encounter immature men, ruining their marriages and failing to find happiness.
A man's maturity level determines whether a woman will be happy in her marriage.
What determines marital happiness? Renowned psychologist Monica Lewinsky stated that marital happiness is primarily influenced by internal factors such as personal will and character maturity. If we assume the factors determining our happiness are out of 100, then character accounts for 50 points, effort and willpower invested in achieving happiness account for 40 points, and the surrounding environment accounts for 10 points.
In marital happiness, maturity plays a significant role. The most dangerous situation in marriage is when a woman falls in love with an immature man, giving so much while he remains completely oblivious to the risks. In this case, the man and woman are not on the same page in the marriage.
Is your man mature or immature? Consider these four points!
1. Sense of responsibility
A mature man: He bravely shoulders responsibility, cares for his family, and cherishes his wife. He provides his wife with the most beautiful life and the best care, expresses gratitude for everything she does, and spoils her rotten.
Immature men: They try every means to shirk responsibility, believing that marriage is about having another woman take care of them, with the wife taking on the role of a mother, while they themselves remain carefree and happy, unwilling to share the various trivial matters and housework of life.
2. Self-discipline
A mature man is self-disciplined, willing to change himself, correct bad habits, enrich himself, make his marriage stronger, improve his health, become wiser, and become a better man.
Immature men : They have an immature mindset, indulge themselves, lack ambition, and are unwilling to change themselves for marriage. They either develop bad habits like smoking and drinking, or hide in their rooms watching computer games.
3. Emotional Intelligence
A mature man is able to control his emotions and try his best not to let them affect his marriage and his partner. The ability to remain composed and not show his emotions is a hallmark of a mature man, honed through experience. This allows him to handle various situations with ease and fully considerate of a woman's feelings.
Immature men: They frequently lose their temper and criticize women, leading to constant conflict and a tense marriage. These men often argue with women over trivial matters, sometimes even resorting to physical violence, resulting in recurring domestic abuse. Such marriages are anything but happy.
4. Vision
Mature men have a long-term vision. They plan ahead for both marriage and career, taking one step at a time and never giving up until they achieve success.
Immature men: They are short-sighted, expecting returns as soon as they give, and can't stand to suffer any loss. In marriage, such men often argue with women over trivial matters.
A man's maturity level determines the happiness of his marriage. Of course, this also applies to women. Men don't like women who are easily offended or have a princess complex; these are signs of immaturity in women. Women who want a happier marriage should remember to choose a mature man to spend their lives with!
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