1. The tail end of youth cannot be grasped.
In this society that celebrates youth, looking younger has become an endless pursuit for every single woman. A market survey shows that more than 70% of single women are most worried about "wrinkles creeping onto their faces without them even realizing it." Weight loss, beauty treatments, fitness, SPA aromatherapy... all of this is because we are afraid of the marks of time and the loss of our charm.
2. Those with a fear of infants are afraid...
When sex is no longer just about procreation, questions like "To have a child or not?", "When to have a child?", and "With whom?" have become a source of anxiety for many single women. Many fear having a child at the wrong time, or becoming haggard and worn out afterward. They worry that everything will change after having a child: their appearance, figure, job, husband, and even their hope for the future.
3. How far is forever?
"To carry love through to the end" is the heartfelt wish of every woman, therefore, single women fear being betrayed. However, in this materialistic age, love can be impacted and rewritten by many things, with infidelity being a direct consequence. In short, the "fired paradise" of marriage needs the joint efforts of both men and women to "rescue" it. Besides sleeping in the same bed but dreaming different dreams, single women also fear a lack of quality and enjoyment in their sex lives.
4. A marriage without money is like a blade of grass.
If you're not a single woman striving for success, you might dedicate your entire life to one man. "Marrying a rich man" is every girl's dream; who doesn't want a materially abundant life? Therefore, single women fear marrying a worthless man instead of a high-potential one. The so-called "love conquers all" is just a self-comforting anesthetic! A wealthy marriage is the real treasure.
5. Independent fulcrums are indispensable.
Although the times have given single women more opportunities for independent development, they still fear losing their foothold in independence: career-oriented single women fear career plateaus and the lack of fair competition rules; ordinary single women fear losing their careers, the pressure of their profession, the impact of age and childbirth on their careers, harassment and difficulties from their superiors, and even more so, becoming a numb housewife after the age of 35.
6. Lonely High Heels
Zhu Deyong called them "shy girls." "One person fears loneliness, two people fear betrayal"—this is their dilemma. They all have their own lives and careers; they no longer depend on men. They've redefined "home" as: "Buying a house is equivalent to having a home." But even someone as successful as Yang Lan says, "Life is more important than success." What good is career success then?
7. Don't let illness knock on your door.
"Eat whatever you want, and don't suffer from illness." Although the world changes too fast, blood ties will never be broken. We don't want to be afflicted by disease, nor do we want to see our loved ones suffer, and we are even more afraid of losing them. From another perspective, as only children, we have to support both parents, so if our family members have health problems, we will bear the responsibility.
