In relationships, some women habitually try to change men according to their own expectations. In reality, men also have their own thoughts, and disliking trouble, they fear being burdened with too much responsibility. So, what are the behaviors men dislike most in women? Why do women always want to change men? Today, we'll explore the psychology behind women's emotions from a psychological perspective. Let's take a look!
Transforming men is certainly a form of beauty creation.
When men change for the better, women benefit too. However, changing a man is much harder than losing weight or having a child. Many women have a penchant for trying to change men, demanding that everything conform to their standards and not allowing any deviation. In their eyes, doing what they ask is an act of love, while not doing so is considered "rebellion."
Why do women want to change men? Because when two people live together, disagreements are inevitable due to differences in lifestyle. Therefore, both partners often feel an urge to change each other's habits to suit their own lifestyle.
But a man's bad habits aren't something you can just change on a whim.
For example, smoking and drinking certainly have no benefits, and men know this, yet they can't seem to live without them. Women go to great lengths to change them, even treating them as rivals, putting in tremendous effort and energy. But in reality, men around the world still smoke and drink as usual, to the point that some say, "A man who doesn't smoke or drink is like a woman who doesn't grow a beard." All the women's efforts to change them are in vain.
Many women admire Hillary Clinton, believing this strong woman single-handedly shaped Bill Clinton. She not only chose him from a pool of male students at Yale University and actively pursued him, but also played a crucial role in his presidential election. However, her ultimate fate is clear: Clinton had an affair with Monica Lewinsky, repaying his beloved wife with the "Lewinsky scandal." It is said that Hillary later lamented in a speech to a women's organization: "Never try to change men. The result is like yourself—men not only don't appreciate it, but they think everything is the result of their own efforts, and your efforts may very well allow another woman to reap the benefits!"
The types of women men hate the most
Women can be lovely and charming, or they can be annoying. Perhaps women with beautiful faces have a natural advantage in attracting others, but in the eyes of many men, appearance isn't the most important thing; as long as their looks are acceptable to the general public, that's enough. Moreover, in reality, truly ugly people are few and far between; most of us are just ordinary people with average beauty. So, in the eyes of most men, what type of woman is considered annoying?
First: Stingy and petty
Of course, being stingy here doesn't refer to being frugal or simple in life. On the contrary, women who are frugal and simple in life are often the most attractive to men. After all, everyone wants to make a living. The stinginess and pettiness here refers to how one handles interpersonal relationships; in other words, being narrow-minded.
Basically, most men can't stand this type of woman. Because this kind of woman brings endless trouble to the family and the man. Often, even the smallest things can escalate into a huge mess, such as minor conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or communication with neighbors. If you live with this kind of woman, don't expect to have a single good day. And other men, if they see or know about her, will inevitably be afraid to live with her.
Second: Unfilial piety
"Disrespect for the husband's parents" is something many men find unbearable. This isn't because these women are selfish, but because they are often very filial to their own parents. Often, she'll be very helpful if her own family asks for money, but if her in-laws ask their son for money, she'll immediately pull a long face, bring up past grievances about how wrong her mother-in-law was, and subtly hint to her husband not to give her any.
The main reason men dislike this kind of woman is that she doesn't treat her parents who gave her life and raised her well. Also, her pettiness makes her lose her feminine grace and generosity, which makes people disgusted by her.
Third: Not knowing when to advance or retreat
The most annoying thing about this kind of woman is that she doesn't know how to act according to the occasion or situation, making those around her lose face. For example, if you fail in business or don't earn enough money, and you're feeling down and looking for comfort, your woman might give you a cold shoulder. Who would feel good about that?
Therefore, women must know when to advance and when to retreat, and it is sometimes appropriate to appear a little cute. They must know when to stop and be observant of others' expressions.
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