Some people ask, what is considered an appropriate frequency of sexual activity? Indeed, this is a question many people are concerned about. The frequency of sexual activity varies depending on race, region and climate, cultural background, as well as individual age, health condition, and psychological interests.
To give you a straightforward answer, here's the answer that's most suitable for Chinese people: 8 times.
Clearly, to achieve an activity frequency of 8 times per month, one needs their own space. Therefore, the biggest factor related to happiness is owning one's own property, and people with larger homes are happier than those with smaller homes because they have greater freedom of movement.
Secondly, of course, you need a stable income. If you're hungry and naked, even if you're physically strong and don't catch a cold, you'll still be thinking about what to eat after you finish working. No matter how many times you work, you probably won't feel happy.
There are three main criteria for judging a normal frequency of sexual activity:
1. Sexual desire arises naturally and is strong enough to warrant sexual intercourse. Any forced or perfunctory sexual intercourse is excessive.
2. The entire process of sexual intercourse should proceed and be completed naturally without any discomfort. As long as there is no physical or psychological discomfort, it is considered normal.
3. Use your feelings the next day as a standard for judgment after intercourse. If both partners feel refreshed and energetic, have plenty of energy for work, sleep well, feel physically and mentally refreshed, and their lives and work are not affected the next day, then it is considered normal. If, however, you feel weak, listless, drowsy, short of breath, dizzy, have lower back pain, leg pain, and decreased appetite the next day, affecting your life and work, then it is excessive and requires self-regulation. If you have any pre-existing chronic illnesses, excessive sexual activity is prone to relapse, so you should exercise even more restraint. Therefore, do not blindly compare yourself with others, thinking that just because you have more than others, it is excessive and necessarily bad. Instead, judge based on your own feelings.
