Wang Ziwen talks about her family of origin; netizens comment: "The shadow of her parents' divorce follows her for a lifetime."
In a variety show, Wang Ziwen expressed her envy of Qin Pei's warm family atmosphere and revealed her sadness when talking about her own family of origin: living in a single-parent family at an early age made her "learn to read people's expressions and be very sensitive", and "I will carry this trauma with me for the rest of my life".
Wang Ziwen also frankly admitted that she "never contacts her parents unless there's a reason," and that "her independence was forced upon her because no one cared." This is quite heartbreaking and has sparked online discussions about whether the trauma of one's family of origin can be repaired.
Some netizens expressed similar sentiments: the impact of parental divorce is not just about "growing up without parental companionship," but also about the subtle, pervasive influence on daily life. Others commented that the shadow of parental divorce can follow a person for life, leading to fear of marriage, insecurity, sensitivity, and a combination of independence and vulnerability.
How can parents ensure their children are not harmed during a divorce?
Coincidentally, the recent hit TV series "All Is Well" also starkly reveals the "evil" of "family of origin" to the audience. The growth trauma caused by the entanglement of the family of origin will accompany the child for life, and the same is true for the impact of divorce on children.
The divorce rate is rising among modern people. Some couples separate amicably and make good arrangements for the care of their children, so the negative impact on the children is naturally less. However, some couples tear each other apart during the divorce process, even resorting to slander against each other for certain interests or reasons. They may see this as just an adult war, but their children may be suffering greatly behind the scenes.
In divorce cases, children are the most vulnerable. Since such harm is unavoidable, how can we minimize it?
