For married couples, maintaining a long-lasting marriage is a lifelong lesson, requiring dedicated learning and diligent effort to ensure the relationship stays fresh and exciting. Therefore, the psychology of married men is something many women wonder about. So, what is the psychology of married men like?
Is there a difference in a man's psychology after marriage compared to before? Market research conducted with many married women tends to indicate a greater change. Many men experience a psychological shift after marriage, leading to the common saying: "A man is a dog before marriage, a wolf after." Below, we summarize some common mindsets of married men for married or unmarried women to consider.
1. The first mindset: selfishness in one's heart.
Men are very possessive, and most men are much more possessive than women when it comes to handling relationships. This is mainly manifested in their selfishness. As a wife, you should fully understand this mentality of men, give them appropriate care and tolerance, and not be too concerned about it.
2. The second mindset: a fragile mentality.
Before marriage, men are usually self-sufficient and tend to appear strong. However, after marriage, their wives become their other half, and subtle changes occur within them, leading to a more vulnerable state that needs protection. Therefore, wives should give their husbands more care and love.
3. The third mindset: hidden loneliness.
Men's loneliness is often hidden behind a strong exterior. In reality, men fear loneliness most, especially after marriage. If a wife is always busy with her career and children, she may lessen her love for her husband, thus gradually intensifying his feelings of loneliness. Therefore, a wife's responsibilities are very significant; she needs to balance career and family, and shouldn't always prioritize the children. She must understand that a family's success requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife.
