1. Arguments are destructive.
Some people believe that as long as couples love each other enough, they will never argue about anything. But even the tongue and teeth sometimes clash; how can two independent thinkers not have disagreements?
2. "Telepathy" is very important.
People holding this view mistakenly believe that couples can understand each other with just a glance. They think that if they have to tell their partner what they want, it means he/she doesn't love them enough.
3. My partner will never change.
The saying "If you hurt someone the first time, you'll hurt them again" is true. But this reality is based on the premise that "you didn't communicate well." If we're willing, we can consider our partners' feelings, do things for them, and even change ourselves.
4. Every sexual encounter should be perfect.
Almost no one can experience a wonderful and satisfying feeling in every sexual encounter. In fact, sex is influenced by many factors. Most of the time, one partner will not be able to achieve orgasm or pleasure during sex.
5. Men and women cannot truly communicate.
This misunderstanding arises because you haven't mastered the correct communication methods and don't know how to open up to your partner.
6. A good marriage should not have any flaws.
In reality, relationships between the sexes are never a simple "either/or" situation; harmony and happiness always coexist with conflict and entanglement.
Many people have had these thoughts. They stubbornly believe that true love should develop naturally. Therefore, when problems arise in a relationship, they become helpless and fail to actively and constructively solve them, even preferring to end the relationship. This is truly throwing the baby out with the bathwater. Experiencing friction in a relationship is perfectly normal; only through continuous compromise and adjustment can a relationship become more stable and steadfast.
