Japanese media previously conducted a survey of 183 single men aged 10-30 regarding "the type of girl they cannot accept." Based on the survey results, Livedoor News summarized nine characteristics of "girls who are easy to dump."
1. Always trying to please others and never telling the truth.
No matter what others say, she always says "Wow, that's amazing!" That's so fake. A girl like that, always trying to please and flatter others, will definitely annoy her boyfriend. Even if speaking the truth sometimes leads to disagreements, it's always better to speak your mind.
2. Always letting the guy make decisions makes him feel "tired and unloved".
She always leaves the decision-making power, from the date location to the dinner menu, to every little detail, to her boyfriend.
3. Simply tolerating dissatisfaction
For many men, an overly compliant girlfriend can make them feel like they've done something wrong. Rather than hiding their true feelings and blindly obeying their boyfriend, it seems that openly expressing their dissatisfaction is more likely to deepen mutual trust.
4. Lack of assertiveness makes one seem unattractive.
Being passive and negative towards your boyfriend can be quite boring. Expressing your personality and preferences can deepen mutual understanding.
5. "Echoes," those who only say "yes" and never "no."
For guys who hope to grow through relationships, a girl who blindly obeys everything isn't a good girlfriend. Supporting each other through growth, while occasionally engaging in heated verbal exchanges, is also an important element of a relationship.
6. Overly submissive and lacking individuality
He craves excitement in his partner and won't be satisfied with a submissive girlfriend. Sometimes, it's nice to throw a little tantrum and challenge him, acting like a spoiled princess.
7. There were no new discoveries while we were together; it all felt the same.
"The same old dates, the same old conversations, it's so tiresome," as this man said. Girls like that are just annoying. A date with unexpected surprises, discussing TV shows and books he doesn't know about, can let him see a new side of you.
8. My boyfriend makes mistakes but I don't correct them.
Some men believe that women who scold them and encourage them to grow are attractive when they make mistakes, hoping that she will scold them and help them correct their errors. However, it's important not to think, "Because he's the man I love most, I forgive him." Pointing out someone's mistakes and helping them correct them is the most important thing.
9. Disrespecting the other party and failing to respect each other.
If you indulge your boyfriend's whims too much, he'll take it for granted that you're good to him, and your status will easily drop. You should firmly refuse your boyfriend's unreasonable demands and be flexible with him.
She agreed to her boyfriend's demands out of love, but ended up getting dumped because of it—that's putting the cart before the horse. Whether she should have accepted his unreasonable demands, and whether these demands would affect their relationship, are things she should seriously consider.
