1. Approval
Men crave to conquer the world, therefore, what they need most is recognition and approval. Even if what they do may be meaningless, never belittle a man. Criticism will hurt his self-esteem and make him feel lonely and helpless. A wise woman should learn to appreciate her man. A man may not conquer the whole world, but he desires to conquer the world of his woman. The Creator endowed men and women with different personalities and ways of thinking when creating humanity. This is what attracts them to each other, so women should acknowledge men. It's innate, not foolish. This satisfies a man's inflated ego.
2. Warmth
Men are very vulnerable creatures; what they need most often is warmth, not just physical warmth, but more importantly, emotional warmth. When they are tired and weary, they can retreat to a corner like a lazy cat, basking in the warm sun and seeking comfort. Don't assume that men are inherently strong; in fact, men need warmth, care, and sweet words even more than women.
3. Considerate
Men enjoy watching movies, football, and the NBA because their emotional world is straightforward; it doesn't involve complex webs or tangled threads like spider silk. When pursuing a woman they like, a man can give everything—it's a primal male desire: conquest. Don't assume a man will always be this good to you; men get tired and annoyed too. Men also need tenderness and understanding.
4. Life
No matter how accomplished or successful a man is, one thing remains constant: three meals a day. Food is always in his mouth, and tea is always in his hand. Men aren't air; they need to live. Regardless of what he's thinking or doing, one thing is certain: he needs to eat. Only with a full stomach can he survive. Someone once said: "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach." Fill his stomach first, and even if a man is indifferent, he might still crave your cooking. Providing a man with basic living conditions gives him comfort.
5. Forgiveness
No one is perfect, and men make mistakes too. Men are impulsive, so they often err. Women should treat men's mistakes with the same tolerance and guidance a mother would show, helping them to recognize their errors and improve. Instead of pushing men further into the abyss, letting them stray deeper and become unable to extricate themselves. Men are kites, and women are the strings; don't let the kite break its string and lose its way home. Being tolerant of men is also being tolerant of yourself and the world.
6. Understanding
Don't force a man to accompany you shopping; this is a fatal mistake women often make. Men aren't interested in those colorful trinkets. Accompanying a woman shopping is torture, not enjoyment. For men, it's a bitter pill to swallow. Understand men; don't assume that a man accompanying you shopping is a sign of love—it's because he can't handle it. Everyone experiences aesthetic fatigue; letting a man choose items on his own will lose its novelty. A smart woman shops alone, changes her clothes, hairstyle, and overall look, giving her man a fresh perspective. Understanding men gives you more freedom—why not?
7. Confidante
Men spend their lives searching for a soulmate because their hearts are easily lonely and restless. They are not easily satisfied, so they crave communication, hoping someone understands their state of mind and their troubles, seeking sympathy, warmth, sweet words, novelty, and the feeling of being loved. Even if it's like a moth drawn to a flame, they pursue a fleeting moment of magnificence.
