Romantic marriage
Pursuing a romantic love life and having overly high expectations for marriage—hoping the sweetness and harmony of newlywed life will last forever, and that love will be vibrant and passionate forever—can lead to unrealistic expectations. If these expectations are not met in reality, friction and conflict will arise, potentially causing serious marital problems.
Marriages that are overly dependent on parents
Couples who are overly dependent on their parents, when faced with any problems in their marriage, do not discuss how to cope with them with their spouse, but instead seek support or guidance from their own parents. Married couples should understand that their future is intertwined with that of their spouse, and should regard each other as their most trusted and intimate person. Otherwise, such marriages generally fail due to "seeking external intervention."
The perfect marriage
Demanding perfection in everything, with both spouses forcing each other to meet their highest standards, can lead to unnecessary friction in the marriage due to excessively high expectations. Over time, even a good marital relationship can become difficult to maintain.
An overly frugal marriage
Even if the family is currently financially well-off, they are always worried that good times won't last, so they are overly frugal and do not allow their spouses to have more entertainment or enjoyment in life. They even deprive themselves and their families of some basic living needs and pleasures, and are psychologically burdened with too much worry and do not know how to have an emotional life with their spouse.
Hypochondriacal marriage
This situation usually occurs more often in women, who often suspect they are sick and complain about themselves. In reality, they are trying to get their spouse's attention and care, but the result is often counterproductive, making their spouse feel annoyed.
"Always Right" type of marriage
Being overly critical of your spouse, constantly criticizing their every move and thought in front of others, and mistaking it for love, will only make them unbearable to you. This will lead to them leaving you.
A marriage that shows meticulous care
Doing everything for someone, big or small, can easily lead to conflict if things aren't done properly. Such excessive care for one's spouse can cause resentment if the spouse doesn't reciprocate, potentially damaging the relationship.
Busy with "career" type of marriage
Some people are never still; they're always busy. They have no holidays, no rest, and this can make their spouses feel neglected. If such people don't control themselves and spend more time with their spouses, even if it's for their careers, it can lead to a breakdown in the marriage.
