Modern office workers are busy with work, spending most of their time in the office and their rest time at home sleeping. Their opportunities to meet the opposite sex mostly occur in the office, leading to the emergence of office romances. Some say that office romances are mostly women seducing their superiors to climb the corporate ladder, but is that really the truth?
Female subordinate + male boss
Women's initiative: ☆☆☆☆☆
Women are often powerless against successful men. If a mature and stable male boss is also somewhat attractive, women easily lose control, become restless, and fantasize. This is understandable, after all, love without material support is unlikely to be happy.
Man's initiative: ☆☆
Once men reach a certain social status, they naturally crave women's admiration. However, they are well aware of the reasons why women look up to them. Therefore, they won't easily fall into irrational love. Of course, most men still find it difficult to resist women's temptations. After all, being fickle is in a man's nature.
Female boss + male subordinate
Women's initiative: ☆☆☆☆
Successful, mature, and alluring women often crave love, not diamonds. Having already acquired their own diamonds, they may only seek love from their subordinates. If a young man happens to be on their team, witnessing his sunny disposition, even a woman might find herself yearning for him.
Men's initiative: ☆
Men's inferiority complex and self-esteem often coexist. When faced with a female boss they admire, whether it's due to self-deprecation stemming from an inferiority complex or a competitive spirit rooted in strong self-esteem, they will not engage in any relationship with her. Unless forced into a situation by coercion. However, such a distorted love is fundamentally unsustainable.
Between colleagues
Women's initiative: ☆☆☆☆
Office romances often stem from a sense of emptiness and loneliness. When faced with immense work pressure and unsure how to cope, women often become very vulnerable. They desperately crave someone to enter their work life and offer guidance and support. If this happens to be a colleague they like, they will absolutely not let the opportunity pass them by.
Man's initiative: ☆☆
In popular perception, office romances are often associated with men coercing women, but this isn't necessarily true. The pleasure that success brings to men is in no way inferior to the pleasure that women bring. Therefore, men at work are usually focused on the documents on their desks, not on a woman's legs. They might develop feelings for a colleague, but they don't want to cause trouble (such as gossip from colleagues, displeasure from superiors, etc.). Therefore, they generally won't take the initiative.
