Do women in relationships often experience this dilemma? They feel that once they've won the other person over, everything is fine, and they stop contacting or meeting up. Surveys show that many men actively contact their partners almost daily during the pursuit phase, but their attitude changes after they start dating. However, everyone hopes for a long-lasting relationship without arguments or misunderstandings. This time, the Japanese website WooRis published a survey on "Men's True Feelings About Relationships," with 444 men participating. So what is men's ideal relationship like, and what kind of distance should they maintain? Let's find out.
1. What is the ideal frequency of contact?
The answers to this question were somewhat unexpected. 126 people answered "every day," accounting for 32%. These men's thoughts were sweet, such as, "If it's true love, I want to hear her voice every day." Next, 85 people answered "once every two days," accounting for 17%. Another 82 people answered "I'll reply if she contacts me first," accounting for 16%.
Interestingly, the vast majority of those who answered "every day" wanted to hear her voice and therefore chose to call. It seems that frequent phone calls are a sign that men are falling in love.
2. What is the ideal number of meetings?
Let's look at what kind of meeting frequency is ideal for men. Corresponding to the previous question, most people who answered "daily" hope to "meet every day." However, the most common answer was "once a week," with 253 people, accounting for 51%.
Indeed, more than half of the respondents answered "once a week," followed by "once every three days," with 49 people (10%) answering "every day," and another 44 people (9%) answering "every day." It seems that contact and meeting have different meanings in the eyes of men.
3. If we can meet every day, how often should we go on a date?
Indeed, some people often find it difficult to meet due to work or other interpersonal relationships. However, let's first hear the answers to the question, "If you could meet every day, how often would you go on a date?" The most common answer was "every day," with 134 people (27%). The second most common answer was "once a week," with 114 people (23%). Finally, the most common answer was "once every three days," with 96 people (19%).
It seems that quite a few people can't meet every day due to work or other reasons. Those who answered "once a week" and "once every three days" mostly thought, "Meeting every day would be annoying." Daily contact is fine, meeting every day is annoying—men's minds are truly hard to understand.
What are your thoughts on the results above?
