1. When paying the bill, I never see him use change.
Paying the bill by readily pulling out a 100-yuan bill certainly feels prestigious, but if someone receives change and throws it into their pocket without even looking at it, or finds it troublesome to take out change, they may have a weak concept of money.
People who are stingy with money are difficult to get along with, but if they are too extravagant, it will inevitably make people worry about the future of the couple. After all, marriage is not child's play, and effective management of money is also an essential element in ensuring the stability of a marriage.
2. Don't cut your nails before a date.
Nails are a very detailed part of the nails, and also a good way for us to check their usual cleanliness.
Men should maintain an appropriate nail length and pay attention to keeping the nail bed clean. If he doesn't, it can be said that he doesn't care much about his personal hygiene. If someone doesn't even shave or brush their teeth, they certainly won't care about their nails.
If you're too lazy to maintain your own hygiene, your lazy lifestyle may become a burden after marriage.
3. The reply speed is too fast.
Of course, we all hope our boyfriends will frequently text us to check in on us. But if this kind of frequent texting, WeChat messaging, and QQ chatting happens during work hours, it inevitably makes people wonder if he's really taking his job seriously.
Such people may not have high expectations for their work, only needing to do the bare minimum, or they may value romance more than work.
Regardless, sending too many personal text messages during work hours demonstrates a lack of social awareness. While different professions and circumstances may vary, constantly sending personal text messages will negatively impact one's work and reflects a lack of responsibility. The weight of love cannot be measured by the number of text messages.
4. He won't let you go to his house.
If, after you've been dating for a while, you suggest visiting his place, and he always makes excuses like "the house is dirty," it's best to be wary. Think about why he's refusing your request. Don't be complacent.
If you haven't been dating for long, there's no need to bother someone at home. But if you've been dating for a long time and they still won't let you see where they live, there might be something else going on, and they might be hiding something they can't tell you. The worst-case scenario is that they're already married.
5. Prone to getting angry at store clerks
Be wary of men who immediately get angry at the staff when their food doesn't arrive after a short wait.
People who act so aggressively, saying things like "Because I'm a guest, you have to do this and that," are usually driven by a strong desire for power. The closer you are to each other, the more arrogant they become, saying things like "Because you're my woman, you have to do this and that." This can easily lead to a subservient relationship, and even worse, it could escalate into domestic violence.
