1. You don't want to make your relationship public.
Do your family and friends know you're in a relationship? If you're ashamed to go public with this relationship and don't want to share your happiness and joy with people you care about, it means you're not getting peace of mind and happiness from this relationship.
2. Always feeling frustrated about the future
While it's perfectly normal for people to experience emotional ups and downs, if you can't see a future in this relationship and feel frustrated about it, or even don't want to talk about this important topic, then that's quite telling.
3. You can't be yourself
At the beginning of a relationship, in order to present their best side and attract their partner, people often unconsciously hide certain aspects of their personality, habits, or thoughts. However, if you continue to do this, preventing your true self from being expressed, it will sow the seeds of future problems for the relationship.
4. You are dissatisfied with many aspects of him.
There is no perfect partner in the world, and it is perfectly normal to complain about your partner. However, if you find that their shortcomings outweigh their strengths and they always make you unhappy, this relationship will not bring you true happiness.
5. You are unwilling to spend time with him.
Spending time together is a very important part of a relationship, and making excuses to leave and being unwilling to spend time with your partner is a dangerous sign.
6. You keep reassuring yourself that things will get better.
The most dangerous thing in a relationship is self-deception. When you're very dissatisfied with your partner's behavior, and all your attempts to persuade them have failed, you keep giving yourself the psychological suggestion that they will change someday. This is actually a form of self-deception.
