Myth 1: Marriage means hardship
When you're in a relationship, being together doesn't necessarily mean a lot of annoying chores. Even small things like cleaning the toilet or mopping the floor can become a source of enjoyment. Besides, when you're deeply in love, you want to spend more time with your partner.
Myth #2: Love means never saying "I'm sorry".
On the contrary, love is about apologizing when you mess things up, especially when you're in a bad mood. Your partner will see your worst and best sides. Your actions will also serve as a role model for them.
Disagreements are inevitable; resolving them is your choice. Learning to say sorry is a great way to repair relationships.
Myth 3: Extramarital affairs will never happen.
You might take it for granted that you both are so loyal and devoted in your marriage. Of course, that's everyone's ideal. However, we all have emotional and physical needs, and if you start neglecting this intimacy, it's very likely that your partner will seek new excitement elsewhere.
Please acknowledge that "infidelity is possible." This sense of urgency will make you more inclined to improve your relationship and ensure that both of you are satisfied. Don't take loyalty for granted!
Myth 4: Once married, everything will become perfect.
When people are dating or living together, they often have the illusion that everything will get better. But once they are engaged and receive a legal commitment, they feel a sense of security and happiness.
However, real marriage is not like that. Money and the law are not magic bullets to make a relationship strong. If you didn't feel happy before marriage, you're even less likely to find happiness afterward.
Myth 5: My partner knows I love him, so I don't need to say it.
You're wrong again. We'll never get tired of those words; we'll just want to hear them over and over again. So, every single day, tell him how much you love him with words, notes, gifts, gestures, texts, and hugs!