1. Don't lie.
Honesty is always the right thing to do in any relationship. Don't lie, whether you hope to win someone's love with a lie or because you don't want to hurt someone's feelings. Tell the truth, because for every lie you tell, you have to tell an even bigger one to cover it up.
2. Don't be "pretentious".
Some women like to maintain a "handsome" attitude when dating. If you're not too busy, don't ignore his calls or texts. Relationships are the result of mutual effort.
3. Don't rely on alcohol to embolden yourself.
Don't use drinking to pretend you're brave, sociable, or funny, especially if you're not used to drinking. Nobody likes someone with alcoholism tendencies. Shy people are actually quite likable.
4. Don't be impatient
Don't rush into investing your emotions too quickly: for example, calling him 20 times a day, planning your vacation months in advance, or telling him about your vision of your future children or the color of the curtains in your dream house—if you've only been dating a few times, this might scare him away.
5. Don't move in together too quickly.
Many couples move in together after dating for a few months. Remember: you have no reason to do this. Slowing down will allow you to get to know him better.
6. Don't talk incessantly.
In the early stages of a relationship, many women communicate by talking incessantly, unaware that this can sometimes annoy men. Completely exposing yourself to him is not a smart move; maintaining a bit of mystery will attract his attention more effectively.
