Among women who frequently complain that "I have no luck with men," many have experienced being deceived by men in relationships. Unfortunately, many women are often deceived again when they meet new partners after being deceived once.
1. Overly strong-willed women
These types of women typically strive to surpass other women around them in every aspect. They believe that tomorrow should be better than today, and the day after tomorrow should be better than tomorrow, harboring a strong desire for self-improvement. Furthermore, they absolutely cannot choose a partner who is inferior to themselves. Whether it's education, workplace, or family background, they are only interested in men who are more outstanding. These women have very high self-esteem, and admitting to being deceived is extremely painful for them. Even after being deceived, if the man explains, "I like you so much, and I accidentally lied to avoid upsetting you," they can easily accept it and quickly forgive him.
2. Women with low self-esteem
Women who are overweight, unattractive, or have poor communication skills—and who suffer from low self-esteem for various reasons—are often perceived as easily deceived by men. Because of their inherent insecurity, these women tend to be wary and guarded when approached by men who show interest. However, if a man frequently whispers in their ear, "I love your flaws," their insecure self-esteem is boosted, making them easily susceptible to deception.
3. Women who have just broken up
Women who have just broken up with their boyfriends often still maintain a tender, dependent relationship with their ex-boyfriends. At this time, if a man treats her kindly, she may develop the illusion that it's a "destined encounter after a painful breakup." Even if the man isn't genuinely pursuing a gradual relationship but is merely engaging in friendly interaction, it can still create this illusion. It's worth noting that because these women are highly dependent, even if you intend to deceive them, once you start a relationship, it's difficult to break up with them decisively.
4. Women who are powerless against promotions
Women who are frequently lured into buying things by promotional ads featuring "limited-time offers," "last day," or "special discounts" are said to be easily deceived. They are most vulnerable when men say things like "You're the only one who's special" or "You're different from other women," emphasizing this "specialness." And after being unwittingly fooled, even if they hear rumors of their partner's infidelity, they confidently believe, "He's just playing around with them; I'm the one he cares about most." This kind of woman is exactly what philandering men dream of.
5. Women with overflowing maternal love
There is another type of woman who feels more of a maternal love than romantic love for her boyfriend, tolerating everything he does like a mother. Therefore, when a man's infidelity is exposed, he can easily fabricate various lies. Even when deceived, these women believe, "Only I can understand him," and "I must trust him," leading the man to repeat his mistakes. This situation, if allowed to continue, only further encourages the man's deceptive behavior.
To avoid being deceived by men, you must first rationally understand the relationship and not blindly trust sweet words. Love is equal; it's not a one-sided affair where one person gives and the other receives. When you discover inconsistencies between your boyfriend's words and actions, it's crucial to stop and calmly examine the relationship.
