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5 things that can ruin your first date

2026-01-16 04:20:03 · · #1

1. Talk at length about yourself

While dating is a process of getting to know each other better, there's absolutely no need to let him know everything about you on your first time alone together. Maintaining a healthy level of mystery is a lifelong lesson for every woman.

2. Turn your date into a venting session.

Don't talk about your painful past relationships on a first date; it will only make you seem like a complainer and make him feel a little awkward. If he brings it up out of curiosity, just brush it off.

3. Frequent use of mobile phones

Yes, we all use our phones to save the day when things get awkward or quiet, but you shouldn't use that on a first date. No man will feel good about such a dismissive attitude—do you think he's invisible?

4. Wait for the man to pay the bill.

No woman likes a stingy man, but that doesn't mean you can take it for granted that men should always pay the bill. This small gesture of offering to pay the bill can actually earn you points—because it shows you are well-mannered and considerate.

5. Invite friends to join you.

Some women like to bring their best friends along on dates, thinking it will keep the atmosphere lively and their girlfriends can offer advice. This is a foolish move until your relationship is stable and you have his consent.

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