There are women who have always survived in the competition of society. Although they have not yet reached the "peak," they are not elated by external gains or saddened by personal losses, and they still maintain a calm and ordinary mindset. There are women who have their own life goals and strive for perfection in everything they do—they are ordinary but not mediocre, low-key but not decadent. They are considerate and gentle, clean and warm; neither too hot nor too cold, neither too extreme nor too extreme.
Because of this feeling similar to body temperature, we call this type of woman "37℃ woman".
A woman at 37 degrees Celsius is just right, giving off a feeling like fine, aged wine—incredibly mellow and unforgettable. The base 10 degrees represent health; the middle 10 degrees represent wisdom; the top 10 degrees represent beautiful confidence; the final 5 degrees represent charm; and the last 2 degrees represent nobility. Add them all up to the standard 37-degree beauty. Calculate your score and see how many degrees you're missing!
Label 1 for women at 37°C: Ambitious but not a workaholic
Ideal description: A woman should never be a caged bird, because a woman who only knows how to enjoy life will be looked down upon by men. A career-minded woman has financial security, so she appears more composed, doesn't live at the mercy of men, and is capable of handling things on her own. A career-minded woman is not indecisive, fickle, or frivolous; she is endearing to look at and lovable to think about.
A woman who is too career-oriented is not an ideal woman.
A woman who is too engrossed in her career will lose much of her femininity. Expecting her to be gentle and considerate towards you is often just wishful thinking. Because she values her career so much, she will have little time for her family. If you ask her to go shopping with you, she will say it's boring; if you ask her to go to the movies with you, she will say she doesn't have time. Others only see her glamorous side, but they don't see the long, lonely hours you spend alone.
37℃ Woman Label Two: Good-looking but not drool-worthy
Ideal description: Men are vain creatures; they want a beautiful wife. Taking her out in public is certainly a matter of pride, and besides, she's pleasing to the eye every day. But if a wife is so beautiful that she makes men drool, that's not so good. In this world, there are plenty of men with lustful desires. If your wife is too eye-catching, won't you become the target of everyone's envy?
There's no cat that doesn't eat fish, and no man who isn't unfaithful. Thinking this way makes one anxious and restless, wishing one could be by her side every moment. Therefore, having a stunningly beautiful woman by your side is indeed too much trouble. So, most men's criteria for choosing a wife is that she can't be unattractive, but she also can't be too beautiful.
The third label for women in 37°C: virtuous, thrifty, and good at managing a household, but not stingy; good at financial management, but not greedy.
Ideal description: If one day you happily buy a bouquet of flowers for your wife, not only will she not appreciate it, but she will also complain that you don't know how to manage money, and all your mood will be ruined. On the other hand, if she spends a whole morning at the mall and empties your credit card without caring at all about how hard you work outside.
However, what's most worrying is marrying a money-grubber who's obsessed with money, always thinking the outside world is more exciting, and constantly comparing you to other husbands. With so many temptations out there, marrying this kind of woman means you're constantly at risk of losing your job! So, a good woman should be like this: providing a life free from financial worries and occasionally indulging in romance.
37℃ Woman's Label Four: Romantic, but not too romantic.
Ideal description: A woman who understands romance is especially charming, but romance can't fill an empty stomach. Besides discussing fashion with you, it's best if she can also discuss current events and business matters. Romance isn't just about flowers and candlelight dinners; true romance is about a real and peaceful life. For example, on a Sunday, she might suggest visiting your parents, and on the way, she might happily say, "Honey, I'm so grateful to them for giving birth to you and for giving me such a wonderful husband."
On weekend mornings, the first thing she does when she opens her eyes is to give you a light kiss on the cheek and tell you, "I love you." On holidays, she'll take out a new tie that she's been hiding so you can go out and meet your friends. When you come home late, she won't keep asking where you are. When you're drunk, she won't complain but will instead make you a strong cup of tea.
37℃ Woman's Fifth Tag: Good-tempered but Principled in Actions
Ideal description: When we first got married, my wife's good temper was truly a blessing. At home, she doted on me, even to the point of being meticulous. No matter how much I lost my temper with her, she always spoke softly and gently. However, when I faced setbacks in my career or felt lost, she couldn't offer the guidance and advice she possessed, instead letting me drift further and further astray until it was irreversible, leaving her completely bewildered. Therefore, the "37-degree woman" has become the new darling of relationships; if you encounter one, don't miss out.
37℃ Woman's Sixth Label: Tolerance
In life, we inevitably encounter many people and things, and friction is unavoidable. Some people have hurt us, including those closest to us. At such times, we need forgiveness, especially in relationships, requiring mutual understanding and compromise. Of course, we cannot be blindly forgiving and lose sight of basic human principles.
If men channel their passion into their careers, they will drive the world's material progress; similarly, if women channel their passion into their families, they will drive the progress of humanity itself. A woman without passion will make a home feel lifeless and cold, making it difficult for her family to bear.
37℃ Woman's Seventh Label: Clean
The word "clean" has two meanings. One is the tidiness and cleanliness of one's home environment and personal appearance, avoiding clutter and slovenliness. The other meaning refers to a clean spiritual life; relatively tasteful hobbies and a fondness for beautiful and noble things.
37℃ Woman's Eighth Tag: Independent Thinking
We live in an era rich in knowledge, which directly impacts people's lives. Knowledge doesn't necessarily come from textbooks; it comes from life experiences. A knowledgeable woman is decisive and tactful in handling matters, demonstrating her intelligence and wisdom, and bringing harmony and happiness to her family.
A woman who is 37 degrees Celsius understands the cost of youth best; she knows exactly what temperature allows her to present her most beautiful self. A degree more is madness, a degree less is arrogance. Just the right amount—37 degrees—is the epitome of a sophisticated woman. Beauty, intellect, elegance, talent, love, career, family…
Perhaps this can be explained as follows: they possess a certain level of experience, are mature, and remain calm and composed in the face of adversity. They may take longer to warm up emotionally and react more slowly to situations, but they are never frivolous. Of course, these are all relative. Even when they are lively, they maintain a high degree of restraint. They are the kind of people who plan for their family and their entire lives. If home is the shore, then the "37-degree woman" is the soft bed on that shore—she embraces you, comforts you, and gives you the confidence to remain calm.
If men are ships, then women of 37 degrees are the helmsmen hidden within them. The bigger the ship, the more accomplished they feel; the bigger the storms, the more room they have to maneuver. No matter what happens, women of 37 degrees rarely think of abandoning ship, unlike some women who are forever unsure where the lifeboats are. They are exceptional women, captivating in appearance and enchanting in temperament.
Women with a 37-degree sense of style know how to enjoy the beauty of life. Visiting a friend's house, I was truly surprised by her fresh personality and naturally relaxed home style. Evergreen plants were scattered throughout the living room, balcony, and bedroom; simple wooden chairs were uniformly covered with soft cushions made of various floral fabrics, giving them a rustic feel; and the floor along the walls was paved with glossy, natural pebbles.
She said walking barefoot on it not only has health benefits but also brings a sense of returning to childhood; in the study, two large bookshelves filled with books are enough to demonstrate the owner's studiousness, ambition, and refined taste; in the open kitchen, various cookware are neatly arranged, and every spoon and cup has its own unique character… This kind of home makes one feel relaxed as soon as they enter, making them want to completely indulge in a moment of respite from their busy lives. She is God, and the world revolves around her; she displays an unprecedented arrogance!
A woman at 37 degrees isn't afraid of aging, because she becomes more beautiful with age. Time doesn't leave any marks on her; instead, it acts like a magician, allowing the light within her to shine through little by little. Perhaps she has learned something from men. Look around, what kind of man is worthy of such a woman?
