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How women can attract romance on social media.

2026-01-16 06:58:52 · · #1

Some people make money through WeChat Moments; some get promoted through WeChat Moments; some "grow themselves and corrupt others" through WeChat Moments... Single people, it's time to use WeChat Moments to attract a man!

1. Subtle Implication

Choose a WeChat post related to "lovers" and share it with a touch of melancholy and anticipation, such as: "I suddenly really want to eat chocolate. If I could eat a piece of chocolate on that day, I wouldn't need Valrhona or Godiva; Dove would make me just as happy."

Success rate: ★★★★

This subtle hint will make men think you're a good, down-to-earth girl who's looking for love. As for men who just want a woman to pass the time, they'll mostly think you're easy to fool but also troublesome. But it's different for men who are truly interested in you; they'll take your encouragement and bravely express their love.

2. Overbearing and explicit

The essence of this one is its overwhelming domineering aura; it doesn't treat men like men! As a queen, it's your blessing to have her grace you with her favor, and to choose you for a date is an achievement for any man. For example: "I happen to have some free time on the 26th of the twelfth lunar month; which of my beloved subjects should I choose?" A calendar is also included.

Success rate: ★★★

For men who love to play the submissive role when they have nothing better to do, and who immediately shout "Long live the Queen" at the first sign of a whip, this method is simply tailor-made for them! The effect is immediate, guaranteeing countless comments: Me! Me! It has to be me! However, you should be careful when using it, because most of the people you meet this way are your close friends (or gay besties) rather than your dream guy.

3. Both sexes are acceptable.

Even if the quality isn't great, a large group can make up for it; it's better than spending the holiday alone. The key to this strategy is to invite friends and family—cast a wide net to catch fish. For example: "On [date], at [bar name], we're having a huge 'Let's all party'!" Get your friends back quickly!

Success rate: ★★★★

If you have someone you like, you can take advantage of the situation and find an excuse to ask them out; if not, you can expand your social circle, and you might just bump into someone. You know, there are a lot of men in heat on this day, and even the most oblivious shut-in will feel a bit aroused.

4. Clear objectives

A goddess's defining characteristic is that she must maintain an air of composure and never appear to be casting a wide net. Therefore, before you try to use this tactic to get a man to spend the holiday with you, first take stock of who the men you're interested in are, what their strengths are, and whether you can find common ground with them... and then "pretend" to ask for help.

For example: "The documents my boss requested this time are extremely technical. I've been holed up in the library all day and still haven't figured them out. I have to work overtime every day this week, and next Monday is the deadline..." The accompanying image must match the target client's—that is, the man you've set your sights on—in terms of his profession, and be something high-end and difficult to understand, something that can inspire his desire to try and feel a sense of accomplishment.

Success rate: ★★★★★

A goddess's weakness is a man's aphrodisiac, most likely to ignite his heroic instincts. Especially since you've chosen to ask for help in an area he's good at. If he still doesn't speak up, it's either because he lacks confidence or ability; you should probably just give up.

5. Taking an unconventional approach

Beforehand, gather various little-known facts about animal courtship, especially those involving females taking the initiative, such as the spotted hyena, a highly matriarchal society. When reposting, casually hint at your own loneliness. Note that the nonchalant tone is key! For example: "Wow, sometimes animals have more freedom than humans! I'm so envious… Although I can't be a free-spirited spotted hyena, I hope I won't be alone." Also, forward a WeChat post titled "Time to Learn Something New! Bizarre Animal Courtship Pairings."

Success rate: ★★★

This kind of suggestion is a double-edged sword; it might scare away a bunch of chauvinistic men. But a man who runs into your arms under such a suggestion is unlikely to escape in the future.

6. Dating for losers

As a loser, you have to be willing to do things yourself; you can't catch a wolf without risking your cub. For example: there's only one seat left for a candlelight dinner, first come, first served! And while you're at it, post a picture of the food you made—it has to be incredibly tempting.

Success rate: ★★★★

The choice is firmly in your own hands; you won't waste money and suffer for nothing. Even if there's no suitable person to accompany you, at least you can at least have enough to eat.

7. Waiting for the Prince type

The defining characteristic of "princess syndrome" is always believing oneself to be the center of the world, and that only the most handsome and beautiful prince is worthy of one: Charles is too old, William is balding, George is still breastfeeding, and Harry is merely a low-ranking officer dependent on his grandmother… However, one can still hope for her family's special chocolates. For example: I wonder if my prince will appear? I really hope that one morning someone will be waiting for me under my window with 999 roses, and the chocolates they bring should at least be Charbonnel et Walker, right? Don't forget to include a beautiful picture to show off your taste!

Success Index ★

Waiting by the window in the dead of winter, do you think this is a scene from a Korean drama? If a man actually did this, your first thought wouldn't be to be alone with him, but rather whether or not to send him to a mental hospital.

8. The fierce woman type

Being a "chuunibyou" (a person with delusions of grandeur) is a state of being, a state of disregarding rules and crushing morals that is beyond the reach of ordinary people. For example: "I'm still a virgin! All you friends and family with partners, watch out! If you don't want to be bothered by third wheels one day, quickly offer your tribute—money, gifts, whatever the amount. Of course, it's best if it's a man! For an image reference, look at Angelina Jolie's Dark Witch look in *Maleficent*; only that can match your powerful aura!"

Success Index – I have absolutely no idea how to rate it (★)

The line between being a chuunibyou (a person with delusions of grandeur) and being mentally unstable is very thin; only you can judge the appropriate level. And who knows, maybe someone might actually like your style?

9. Artsy and Fresh Style

A touch of romance is essential for a fresh and simple lifestyle. Start preparing this two weeks in advance – slow and steady wins the race, after all. Share a few love-themed posts daily, paying close attention to the tender comments, and cultivate a gentle and considerate image of a single person. After a week, switch to posting information about movies/theaters or the opening of cafes/dessert shops, subtly expressing your desire to see and try them. For example: "I really hope I can have the chance to gaze at someone like this someday. I'll do my best in 2015!" This post must be paired with a table you love at that place; eating with you on a Saturday night would be so cozy! Also, share a very romantic post or picture related to food.

Success rate ★★

Young, innocent girls often make men feel like they can see but not touch them; hinting that a man can ask her out is already the limit. However, many times, even this small hint isn't enough for men, so the success rate is rather low.

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