Marriage shapes a woman's life, making the choice of a good man crucial. Nourished by a good man, a woman naturally enjoys happiness and radiance; choosing the wrong man leads to worry and inevitably a haggard appearance. Therefore, a man bears half the responsibility for a woman's beauty!
Women are flowers: men are the soil that nourishes them.
You don't have to marry a man who will support you financially, but you must marry a man who will "support" you. The first "support" (without quotes) refers to a man's economic ability. The second "support" refers to compatibility in terms of physical and personalities. A man's "support" for a woman is not simply about him spending money on you. It means he is more thoughtful than you, which will enhance your inner self; and if you sometimes get stuck in a rut, he can help you open your heart.
There was a girl who was unremarkable in appearance. Her friends were secretly worried she'd never get married, but she was already married. A year or two later, this unremarkable girl had surprisingly developed a radiant beauty. Looking at the man beside her, regardless of his looks or demeanor, you couldn't help but envy him. This man had a special power to "nurture" a little girl into a beauty. This indirectly answers another question: why do some people become more beautiful after marriage, while others become less so?
You have to admit that there is indeed an exchange of energy between men and women. Why do we always make friends with the same kind of people? It's because our energy vibration frequencies are similar, attracting each other and becoming like-minded. The man who "nurtures" the woman has energy that resonates with hers, and is certainly higher than hers. Naturally, energy flows from higher to lower, allowing the woman to grow, and she naturally becomes more beautiful.
If a man doesn't "support" her, a woman's beauty will slowly fade away.
An unmarried girl is like a seedling in a nursery, her appearance left to nature. Once married, she spends her days with a man, who becomes her environment and soil. Some women, after marriage, experience a decline in physical and emotional well-being because their husbands fail to provide the necessary nourishment.
There was a woman who was as beautiful as a flower before marriage, but this flower withered very quickly after marriage. In their relationship, she was always the one giving, and this selfish man made her increasingly haggard. Three years of marriage almost drove her to depression. This man didn't "support" her; he was draining her. She finally chose divorce. Soon after, the gloomy energy vanished, and the flower that was about to wither gradually regained its vitality and bloomed brilliantly once more. Actually, this wasn't fate; from the perspective of physical harmony, it was an energy imbalance where one party couldn't "support" the other.
A woman becomes the kind of person she chooses in life.
If a woman is a shrew, then behind her there is definitely a man who caused her to become a shrew, and vice versa. Think about it: if a man has a fiery temper, constantly raging or freezing cold, will a woman be radiant and beautiful? If a man is well-mannered, like a gentle breeze and bright sunshine, a woman will certainly be cheerful, generous, and refreshed. Isn't it said that one's appearance reflects one's heart? Maintaining beauty is actually cultivating one's character. A good man makes a woman's heart, mind, and soul beautiful.
A woman often becomes like the man she falls in love with. The saying "follow a good person and you'll become a good person; follow a witch and you'll learn to dance" roughly conveys this idea. Therefore, if a woman isn't beautiful, the man bears at least half the responsibility. Choosing a man means choosing a life, and in other words, choosing a man means choosing a appearance.
A man who truly "nurtures" a woman doesn't require you to painstakingly understand his physical character. When two people are in the same space, even without speaking, their love naturally and silently flows between them. The best marriage is one of mutual "nurture" in both physical and spiritual aspects, or, to take it a step further, a symmetry in body, mind, and spirit. Only such a relationship is most likely to last.
Look at the women around you, like Su Lin, how they've transformed beautifully over the years. Then look at those once-proud swans who have become shrewish, unattractive housewives. Women are responsible for themselves, so you must open your eyes wide and carefully choose your ideal husband. What kind of man will "support" a woman, making her more and more beautiful with age?
A tolerant man makes a woman beautiful.
Tolerant men appreciate a woman's strengths, and even her weaknesses. Frequent encouraging glances and loving touches are more effective than any expensive skincare product or spa treatment. Indifferent men, critical men, men who always think "other men's wives are the best," disregarding a woman's feelings, or perhaps driven by some complex and subtle psychology, always wanting to belittle her—how can a woman truly be beautiful with them?
A strong man makes a woman beautiful
A strong man provides a woman with a sense of security, both physically and mentally, including relatively good economic conditions, allowing her to fully pursue and enjoy beauty while maintaining her uniquely feminine charm and grace. A man lacking positivity and optimism leaves a woman living in disappointment and exhaustion, constantly struggling and complaining, her heart becoming rough and calloused, almost reduced to a survivalist beast, utterly devoid of beauty.
A charming man makes a woman beautiful
Women dress up for those they love, willingly striving to be more beautiful for their partners. However, some men lack charm and act like "men don't care about such things." Fine, then, men with women—it's easier for everyone, and no one loses out.
A man with affection makes a woman beautiful.
Even if a love affair ends in tears, those tears are beautiful, and even nourishing, lasting for many years to come. Every time she recalls it, her heart still flutters. She feels gratified that the most beautiful years of her youth were not wasted… Such a woman, no matter her age, is beautiful. But a heartless man can destroy a woman's beauty, stripping her of her dignity and filling her heart with pain that even the long years cannot heal.
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